TOPIC: Having The Right Person In A Divorce Hi Im Sharon and Im an Alcoholic. By the grace of my HP and people like you here in SR I havent found it necessary to pick up a drink of "POISON" since 8-11-90. For that and you I am truely grateful. I had the right person with me during my divorce proceedings. Having someone knowledgeable, older and wiser to help me was a complete blessing. It was suggested and advised to me to not verbally commun- icate with my spouse during my divorce. Each of us were living in 2 different states which allowed us to have the proper distance to not see each other. Allowing the lawyers to handle the paper work was also a blessing. In recovery, we have an abundance of resources that can help us in keeping the cost down. For me, an at home mom I had no finacial support when i separated. However when i reached out to someone in recovery for help, it was thru them that connections were made and helped me complete my divorce with little to no stress. No verbal communication in case emotions of anger frustration arose.:react :tappingNo matter how much i wanted to chew my spouse out, someone older and wiser helped me contain those feelings and proceed on. Divorces dont have to be ugly.:a043: There is a healthier way to go around it. Today im remarried, happy, joyous and free thanks to the program of recover and Faith from above. |
I can't get any help with my divorce, and I've called and emailed and everything else I could think of. I am waiting to hear back from a low fee place though. Hopefully they'll pick my case up. |
Thank you for sharing. I needed to hear this so much today. This was a blessing for me. |
I had no idea yrs ago that I would actually get divorced. Always admired folks that stayed married forever. Many times i wondered how i would go thru a divorce and beable to live on my own. Over the course of my 25 yr marriage, i was so unhappy and oftened wrote in a journal my thoughts and prayers. As long as I kept doing what was suggested in recovery then all would be taken care of and ok. Sure enough in my HP's time it all happened according to His plan. With several job appications and interviews the right one came thru for me. My ticket back home here to Baton Rouge where i always wanted to be. My spouse helped me move, get an apt., new computer, came with me to my bank job interview, car.... I was set....however the distance between my husband and I living in 2 different states wasnt right. So we decided divorce was best. He didnt want to leave his job and I didnt want to live in Tx unhappy. Concentrating on my new job and at the beginning stages of the divorce, a yr later my HP sent me to a new AA meeting one Sat. morning. The same day my now husband poped in. This too was his first time at that meeting. If my HP wasnt there to orchestrate this meeting then i dont know who was. Everything works out the way it is suppose to when I leave it to the Man upstairs to do His job. Im in good Hands always. We met in Sept. 2007. Divorced June 2008. Married Feb.2009. |
Congrats Sharon on your marriage!!!!! I had heard about this wonderful news!!!!!! so excited for you! HUGS to you!! Rita |
Thanks Rita....Hope all is well with u friend. Life is truely grand. Simple and yet so meaningful when honesty and trust are part of the marriage equation and all aspects of life. |
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