How many of us are child abuse survivors?

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Old 01-28-2010, 07:44 PM
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I was what you'd say 'touched inappropriately', and I struggled with it for quite awhile, and then I told myself I'm making too big a deal about it, etc. People go through a lot worse. Not sure where I stand on it now. Could have something to do with me abusing alchohol or do I just blame myself for that? I really don't know what to think.
Minimizng and compartmentalizing are common with child abuse. One question to ask when trying to get perspective on how bad it was is... how would I feel if it happened to me today?

For example, if someone did to me today the things my father did to me when I was a child, they would go to jail for a long time... and quite possibly without all their body parts.
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Old 01-28-2010, 08:16 PM
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Child abuse no, trauma yes: my mother was killed in a car accident when I was 8, and I was in the car. After that, I was (this is my ex husband's term) "neglected." Oh, I didn't go hungry or anything, but now that I have a child I realize how much I faced by myself when I was entirely too young.
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