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Old 01-13-2010, 07:36 AM
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Sending support. Come share with us, whenever you need. There are great ears here to listen, and big hearts to enfold you in your pain.

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Old 01-13-2010, 07:38 AM
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My A FIL took his own life back in March via a bottle of sleeping pills and a pint of whiskey. My AH got drunk the morning of the funeral and passed out before time to go. Put one foot in front of the other and breath deep. You did the right thing for yourself and your daughter. Your AH is now at peace. Many, many prayers for you and your daughter. It will be a tough day but God as you know him is walking by your side.
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Old 01-13-2010, 08:58 AM
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I imagine God holding you and your daughter ever so gently today. You are in my thoughts and my prayers, and we are all here for you. God bless you beautiful.
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Old 01-13-2010, 09:37 AM
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sending a prayer out for you and your DD.

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Old 01-13-2010, 10:10 AM
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I've heard some really incredibly scary Ambien stories Deb, so that may have had something to do with it.

Big hugs to you and your daughter.
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Old 01-13-2010, 10:33 AM
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I am praying for you and yours. Imagine all of us surrounding you in prayer as you are cradled in God's arms.
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Old 01-13-2010, 05:30 PM
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Throughout today you will be constantly thought of.



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Old 01-13-2010, 07:56 PM
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*prayers that you are gifted an island
of comfort, guidance, acceptance, and peace
in this raging sea of loss, blame, pain and guilt*

Deb -
(my own name, that feels wierd to type)

This is 'hurtin' time for everyone involved.
There's gonna be stuff thrown this way and that
as everyone tries to relieve themselves
of their own guilt.

And that's the bottom line, isn't it?

You didn't any more 'do' anything to cause this
that you did to make this person drink in the first place.
The mental illness resulting from alcoholism did this.

Animals strike out in their fear and pain.
Humans... reach out.

Congratulations, sister -
you're a human.
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Old 01-13-2010, 08:15 PM
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Deb - I want to add my heartfelt sympathies to you and your daughter. Don't blame yourself - you know in your heart where the blame lies. Healing thoughts coming your way...
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