My Husband took his own life Sat
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My Husband took his own life Sat
He took his life Saturday, I have so many mixed feelings , my daughter and I are so filled with guilt, anger, sorrow. We will start councling and a support group. Has anyone else gone thru this? Im so confused. I cant stop shaking. I called the doctor and they gave me meds.
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Deb, I'm so very sorry. As a suicide survivor too, I remember counseling being indispensable to getting through the first difficult weeks, and all of the conflicting emotions beating me up. Please take tender care of yourself 
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Deb...my heart breaks for you and your family. My prayers are with you at this time.
Counseling and support for you and your family are a good place to start to navigate through this difficult time.
(((((Hugs)))))
Counseling and support for you and your family are a good place to start to navigate through this difficult time.
(((((Hugs)))))
You and your family will be in my thoughts.
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Deb,
I know this seems trite, but know you had nothing to do with it. It's not your fault.
I am so sorry.
Be gentle with yourself.
It is awful now but this pain will ease.
Take care of yourself.
Wife
I know this seems trite, but know you had nothing to do with it. It's not your fault.
I am so sorry.
Be gentle with yourself.
It is awful now but this pain will ease.
Take care of yourself.
Wife
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dear deb-
you are not responsible for his death. alcoholism is.
alcoholism is a killer, in so many different ways.
i know you have recently been making a stand against your husband and perhaps this is why you are now feeling guilty. you were protecting yourself and your daughter. you are not to blame, deb.
my thoughts go out to you, your daughter and his parents and family.
we're here if you want to talk about it.
naive
you are not responsible for his death. alcoholism is.
alcoholism is a killer, in so many different ways.
i know you have recently been making a stand against your husband and perhaps this is why you are now feeling guilty. you were protecting yourself and your daughter. you are not to blame, deb.
my thoughts go out to you, your daughter and his parents and family.
we're here if you want to talk about it.
naive
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dear deb-
you are not responsible for his death. alcoholism is.
alcoholism is a killer, in so many different ways.
i know you have recently been making a stand against your husband and perhaps this is why you are now feeling guilty. you were protecting yourself and your daughter. you are not to blame, deb.
my thoughts go out to you, your daughter and his parents and family.
we're here if you want to talk about it.
naive
you are not responsible for his death. alcoholism is.
alcoholism is a killer, in so many different ways.
i know you have recently been making a stand against your husband and perhaps this is why you are now feeling guilty. you were protecting yourself and your daughter. you are not to blame, deb.
my thoughts go out to you, your daughter and his parents and family.
we're here if you want to talk about it.
naive
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