Financial trouble due to AH

Reply Subscribe

Page 2 of 2

Thread Tools

11-13-2009, 08:13 AM

# 21 (permalink)

whyamistaying

Member

Join Date: Jun 2009

Posts: 245

Quote:

Originally Posted by naive

i thought, "oh, that's a good idea" and then, as i sat and thought about it, i realized that he had never given me anything. 5 years and not one gift! ever!

someone call the codie police!

naive

This reminds me of my AH. He went to rehab for 30 days (just to drink 1 week later) on OUR dime. Anyways, they have a craft hour or something and he decorated a pre-made wooden box with fake gems on it. It made me cry. I still have it. I realized it was the only thing he has ever given me to.

11-13-2009, 08:43 AM

# 22 (permalink)

Still Waters

Being Silent so I can Hear

Join Date: Nov 2008

Location: USA

Posts: 2,521

I got a couple gifts, every single one of them were things he wanted and I never asked for.

11-13-2009, 08:58 AM

# 23 (permalink)

chrisea

May it be

Join Date: Oct 2004

Location: A new day. Today I just see bright colors, in the small world of my dreams.

Posts: 384

[I]just asked me if I want to go to mexico next weekend. I just gotta get her to pay, and I'm in.

My God. He didn't know her and he was trying to get her to PAY FOR HIS TRIP!

OMG, this is what my xabf, did Numerous times!!!

11-13-2009, 09:01 AM

# 24 (permalink)

honoryourself

Member

Join Date: Oct 2009

Location: east siiiide

Posts: 254

I wish someone would ask me to go to mexico and pay for it .. haha!

11-13-2009, 09:25 AM

# 25 (permalink)

sb0804

Member

Join Date: May 2007

Location: Dayton, Ohio

Posts: 82

Quote:

Originally Posted by Still Waters

When I married my AH, I had a paid off vehicle and exactly one debt (that I had planned on, hence the paid of vehicle). Now? Well, we don't even want to go there, now I'm going to get stuck with 1/2 of his debts.

Fun stuff. Especially since according to my AH, it's all my fault.

Isn't that wonderful how that works? For some reason the 20k in credit cards to support drinking was all my fault.

11-13-2009, 09:27 AM

# 26 (permalink)

nodaybut2day

Member

Thread Starter

Join Date: Sep 2009

Location: Quebec

Posts: 2,708

oh please, the 50K/year I made stripping to support my X's drinking, cigarettes and drug habits were my fault. Don't you know...everything is my fault

11-13-2009, 10:01 AM

# 27 (permalink)

Jazzman

Occasional poor taste poster

Join Date: Jul 2005

Posts: 2,542

Man where can I meet a woman like you? I'll treat you like a queen, cook dinners, do the dishes and take to you the Caribbean once a year and pay for you to get scuba certified so we can dive together!

If you support me entirely I guarantee a great meal every night, you will never have to go to the grocery store or cleaners, clean the house, do the dishes...