ellima01

AH's dad went with me- it was really hard- they had me go get a DVO- which I did, He said AH could have visitaion but only supervised- which made me feel better. Also said the house and contents will be mine (house will be consiedered premarital property). There have been tears today- I just feel sad. I know I am doing the right thing- but it is so hard. I feel so alone- Attorney said it may take a long time to get this divorce over with because we are not completely sure where AH is- He may be staying with the prostitute he had in my house- who knows. I just can't help but be sad - for me, for my daughter who never asked for a drunk for a dad. not to mention an idiot for a mom.- And in some sick way, I miss him.

Seren

(((Ellima))) You have had such a hard day! Please be kind to yourself.....

It does not feel like it now, but you and your daughter will have a glorious, drama-free life.

Huge hugs and prayers, HG

MarcusT

hang in there!

TakingCharge999

Hi ellima,
What a hard day for you... ((hugs))

Please do not call yourself that way. You are a human being. What you have done in the past is not important anymore. The only important thing is that NOW you are taking actions to protect your dear daughter and yourself. And for that I am very proud of you!! It takes courage to change. NO ONE does that, how many people do you see changing their lives? Honestly I only know 2 of them in real life, the rest are complaining, feeling victims, escaping one way or the other, doing the same things over and over and over and over and over again... etc. that is why I like to hang around with you ppl

Please try to be extra gentle with yourself these days. Heck, make it the rest of your life You deserve the very best. You deserve a peaceful life and a loving home. I hope you grow into believing this in your heart.

Way to go ellima, please keep posting!