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Update! I did it!
Originally Posted by Pelican 
Daisy?
How did your day go? Did you file the seperation? Did you get wrapped?
How did your day go? Did you file the seperation? Did you get wrapped?
Thanks for asking!
I went. I dropped them off. I treated myself to a smoothie. I had promised to volunteer at dd school today, so no wrap
. But I will have to do that soon! Then I went to a meeting. I am not sure when he will get served? Soon I think??
I am going to treat myself to a bubble bath pretty soon. I really haven't given myself a chance to have an emotional response yet. But as soon as the last little kiddo gets to bed, I will probably let it all out. I can definately feel all of the emotion right under neath my skin.
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Good for you! Sounds like a fabulous day. A day for Daisy!
Daisy, you were doing something positive and healthy for yourself and dd!
I will pass on the great advice my friend gave me when I felt the grief emotions bubbling up. She advised me to let them out, all of them, all the way out. She also recommended that I not hide my crying from my children. They need to know that we cry and get hurt too.
Have a peaceful night!
Daisy, you were doing something positive and healthy for yourself and dd!
I will pass on the great advice my friend gave me when I felt the grief emotions bubbling up. She advised me to let them out, all of them, all the way out. She also recommended that I not hide my crying from my children. They need to know that we cry and get hurt too.
Have a peaceful night!
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I had a nice long Bubble bath and read a little from "The Language of Letting Go"
My lawyer called today and said he would have everything typed up and ready for my signature early next week.
Every since reading Ago's post about her and her X's relationship, I really have been able to look at things differently. It gives me a sense of calm.
Thanks so much! I know God is watching over me, because I always seem to get just what I need
My lawyer called today and said he would have everything typed up and ready for my signature early next week.
Every since reading Ago's post about her and her X's relationship, I really have been able to look at things differently. It gives me a sense of calm.
Thanks so much! I know God is watching over me, because I always seem to get just what I need
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Just kidding, well done
!!I agree with the above poster, letting them know you cry too is a great lesson! In my family no one ever showed emotions. Everything is hidden to this day. Or we showed emotions, but only if something really really REALLY bad happened. It sucks to grow up that way!
I suggest you keep treating yourself... and NEVER stop
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