Do I tell his work

Thread Tools
 
Old 05-14-2009, 06:35 AM
  # 1 (permalink)  
Member
Thread Starter
 
Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: Pennsylvania
Posts: 41
Do I tell his work

I know he's having a few "beers" when he's out on the road and I know a few of his copworkers know this (and except it). He doesn't come home rocked anymore but I can smell something on his breath (it's not beer, it's liquor). I think the owner of the company should know. He's a liability to himself and this company. I'm sure they will eventually find out on their own but I was just going to type up something anonymous and let them know that SOME of their employees are in fact a bomb waiting to happen.

Should I just let it go and time will tell... or should I be proactive?
brokenrockstar is offline  
Old 05-14-2009, 06:36 AM
  # 2 (permalink)  
Member
 
GiveLove's Avatar
 
Join Date: Dec 2006
Location: Stumbling toward happiness
Posts: 4,706
Why is this your responsibility?
GiveLove is offline  
Old 05-14-2009, 06:38 AM
  # 3 (permalink)  
Member
Thread Starter
 
Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: Pennsylvania
Posts: 41
Originally Posted by GiveLove View Post
Why is this your responsibility?
It's not. I'm trying to give up my controling nature, but it's hard to detatch. You just answered my question. Thank you!
brokenrockstar is offline  
Old 05-14-2009, 06:42 AM
  # 4 (permalink)  
Member
 
GiveLove's Avatar
 
Join Date: Dec 2006
Location: Stumbling toward happiness
Posts: 4,706
Hugs to you, ((( rockstar ))).

You DO have a responsibility to YOURSELF, and your own happiness.

I'd humbly suggest you take that VERY seriously
GiveLove is offline  
Old 05-14-2009, 06:57 AM
  # 5 (permalink)  
Member
 
Join Date: Nov 2008
Location: back from the brink
Posts: 457
Nope. You shouldn't. Let the chips fall where they will. Eventually, it all comes to the surface.

One thing you should do is decide if you want to be in the fallout zone when it does happen. Do you?
isurvived is offline  
Old 05-14-2009, 07:10 AM
  # 6 (permalink)  
Member
Thread Starter
 
Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: Pennsylvania
Posts: 41
Originally Posted by Trying2survive View Post
Nope. You shouldn't. Let the chips fall where they will. Eventually, it all comes to the surface.

One thing you should do is decide if you want to be in the fallout zone when it does happen. Do you?
That is a good question. "fallout zone", nope... not really. It will suck to be him if, and when, that happens. It will affect me if he loses his job or gets "injured" because of his decisions, but isn't that the case now?! I'm new at this... learning... I'm going to continue to focus my efforts on myself right now and no control him or the situation.
brokenrockstar is offline  

Currently Active Users Viewing this Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
 
Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off





All times are GMT -7. The time now is 09:19 AM.