Still......no contact Ok....it's been several days and I have had no contact with my son. He has tried to call me once....but I let the phone ring and didn't answer it. He didn't leave a message. I didn't call him back. I have resisted the urges (and yes I have had them) to call him to see how he's doing.....to let him know I love him. There's a part of me that asks myself "Are you just trying to punish him?" and the answer is "no". I am protecting my boundaries. And I realize that if I call him or pick up the phone when he calls me, the boundaries aren't really boundaries. gentle hugs |
(((((((Kindeyes))))))) Tough stuff-- I am admiring your strength and recovery.....and just sending you hugs and prayers....you're doing your best and you're doing the right thing.... peace, b |
This had to be so hard for you. Great job Kindeyes. :ghug |
Hang in there, kindeyes. You're doing the right thing. :ghug3 |
Thanks guys. It's hard but I know that in order for HIM to respect my boundaries...I need to respect them first. gentle hugs |
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