Thanks for the update Bernadette. I was wondering how it's going.

My vote is you should go to the bon voyage party and have one of those big, fruity, icy, non-alcoholic drinks with whipped cream and a little umbrella!

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...and a cherry on top. Just to send you a cyber hug and chime in to tell you I think you've made the right choice.

Peace, hugs, and prayers coming at you, B. You've been through the mill on this one, but sound healthy today. Remember, YOUR serenity is first and foremost. You have learned that here. You have a family to protect, your boys, and that is where your priorities must stay. Your brother is a grown-up; your mother is a grown-up. Write down everything you've learned if you have to, to remember to keep your own recovery in check and in top priority. This is life; choose to be happy, B., and let others make their own choices. Turn it over to your HP. Thinking of you tonight :)