Angelus

We discussed this earlier but it's still lingering... apparently my alcohol and drug addicted friend that I've been trying to stay away from is doing pretty bad, I heard this from a mutual friend. His dad is probably dying.

I want to reach out and express my compassion and sympathy, but I find myself wanting to add "let me know if there's anything I can do." This is where I get uncomfortable---

Because I know the answer to that would be to go sit all night in bars with him again, be his "drinking buddy" get sucked back in, and I don't want that, I've come too far.

Barbara52

You could reach out to your friend with a card that includes a personal message about how much you care. You don't have to make any offers of help unless you are comfortable with doing so.

lilkim

Sometimes you have to save yourself.

Kindeyes

I agree with Barbara but ultimately you have to do what you feel is best for you.

hugs