Should I.....
 

My aunt is a substance abuser and I believe she has some mental health issues. She recently left me a pretty nasty voice mail because I couldn't give her a ride to a court appointment. She called me names, etc. She has two kids that we just adore. One of their birthday's was yesterday and another is coming up very soon. I am wondering if I should just contact their fathers and visit them that way. Each child has a different father in which she is seperated from both. I don't like going over her head but we really miss the kids. I am worn out from trying to get along with her. Suggestions?

Tough one, I know this all to well. I got in a fight with my sister and don't get to see my nephews as I would like. I would call the Fathers and see them that way...
I don't know what age the children are, but for me I call my nephews to get together.

Sorry you are hurting.