What next... he left..

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Old 03-13-2008, 07:09 AM
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What next... he left..

It worked and I stuck by it. After I changed the locks, he came back saying that he did not use and that he cannot handle me threatening or actually changing the locks. I did threaten to do it several times, but I did not.

So we agreed that he is going back to his apartment and that we will keep in touch and go to couples therapy.

I feel good about the decision but lonely and scared. Especially with this baby on the way.
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Old 03-13-2008, 07:26 AM
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{hugs} I hope you can work it out. Just keep taking care of yourself and that little one on the way.
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Old 03-13-2008, 08:36 AM
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You've taken a positive step. Be proud of you and your ability to set boundaries. Hugs.
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Old 03-13-2008, 08:44 AM
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(((((())))))

Way to go on setting your boundaries and sticking to them!!

You did a great thing for yourself and the soon to be little one. Please try to keep the focus on you and the baby...
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Old 03-13-2008, 09:19 AM
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I'd keep attending the Coda meetings and move forward one day at a time. I know it isn't easy raising a child alone, but I have to believe it's more difficult with an active addict in the house.

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Way to go! I'm proud of you.
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