Only one life to live?
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Only one life to live?
Heard from my newcomer sponsee in a meeting this week:
"Now that I left the relationship with my addict boyfriend....
I'm only got one life to live...mine....how am I going to do that?"
I needed a pair of depends I laughed so hard.
We are so used to living the alcoholic/addicts lives for them.....how in the world do we manage with only ONE life to live?
"Now that I left the relationship with my addict boyfriend....
I'm only got one life to live...mine....how am I going to do that?"
I needed a pair of depends I laughed so hard.
We are so used to living the alcoholic/addicts lives for them.....how in the world do we manage with only ONE life to live?
That pretty much is codenpendency in a nutshell.
Many of us mother our mates and smother our children even when addiction is not in the mix. No adult wants to be mothered and smothered. I will cut that behavior out.
I am working on it.
Many of us mother our mates and smother our children even when addiction is not in the mix. No adult wants to be mothered and smothered. I will cut that behavior out.
I am working on it.
L
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That's exactly what I told the ex when the divorce was imminent!
I was tired of being his mother...I had 2 children to take care of, I was sick and tired of trying to get a full grown man to act like an adult.
I was tired of being his mother...I had 2 children to take care of, I was sick and tired of trying to get a full grown man to act like an adult.
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