minnie

Indeed, I might have said "that's what a vehicle rescue service.....or myself and a jack" are for, however I confess to preferring to pay for some stuff rather than do it myself!!

lillian

don't beat yourself up. it takes as long as it takes. people get tired of hearing about their friends being in pain, not moving on, but that's all it is-- them being tired or frusterated. it doesn't mean you SHOULD have moved on by a certain time period. ideally, there would be INSTANT relief from pain, grief, longing for someone- it does not feel good. but there is no instant relief. go through it-- it actually means that you are healthy if you can experience pain and try to allieviate it responsibly, like you seem to be doing-- by talking about it, trying to learn from it, feeling it-- and eventually, you will be through it. give yrself a break, breathe. you're gonna be okay, you will.

justjo

My thoughts are with you. It will get easier.