thelightdawns

I'm sure you have all heard this stuff before, but we just got the credit card statement and he told me on his bender that he had spent $1000. I had issue with it because I thought the limit was higher and he would have spent 1500. I asked ABF about it, quite good naturedly and he said no.
Well, we just got the statement and it turns out that he HAS spent $1500. I seriously dont understand the difference between admitting to $1000 and admitting to $1500. :wtf2

He had to know we would get the statement and I would find out ???????????
It is beyond ridiculous.
Obviously there is no point in going to counseling with him, he obviously has no intention of putting in the effort required. Lying is more important.
Thanks for listening.

Barbara52

Somehow in his mind there was a difference. I won't even try to understand the mind of an active A anymore. Its a waste of time to try to be rational about the irrational.

So how are you doing?

denny57

I don't think he had a clue what he did or didn't spend. What matters is the drinking.

No, what really matters, is what are you going to do with your life?

((()))

rawr_x

its good that your venting