Bad Dream to start the day off with....

Old 07-04-2007, 09:01 AM
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Angry Bad Dream to start the day off with....

I woke from dreaming the exAbf came over to use my internet to look for another partner......how messed up is that?
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Old 07-04-2007, 09:21 AM
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Is there another way to interpret it?
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Old 07-04-2007, 09:58 AM
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I do not know. All I know is that I have been crying all morning. I am mad because I became this codie person. I am really mad that he abused me! I am having my own little pity party I guess today.
First holiday maybe? But here I sit at work, and I guess I am missing being with him. and that is sick considering what that means.,....WHAT I miss his abuse> no I guess I miss the dream of what I hoped for......
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Old 07-05-2007, 08:20 AM
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I know what your dreams means!

When we dream that someone has cheated on us it really doesn't mean that they have cheated or will cheat it means that this person has been spending toooo much time doing something else.

What you need to think of is what activity is this person doing or did recently that took time away from you & your relationship.

Alot of woman have the cheating dream when deer hunting season starts.

Hope this helps!
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Old 07-05-2007, 11:15 AM
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OMG, sthrn,,,I had the SAME party yesterday,,,,

probably more fireworks in me than across the nation. lol

I get so MAD too, that I am yet again WASTING my time and space in my head on him. Asking myself, what about HIM is different than other guys i've "loved and lost". Why can't I just let it go?

I got no answers. For me, I had to revert back to the early lessons I've learned. the biggest being, "wait ten minutes". Allow myself to feel it, take no action for ten minutes and hope that it goes away" It usually does

Maybe when you woke up you were being "stupid". I don't mean that in a negative way. When I wake up in the morning, I jump in my spandex and sneakers and run. Takes me ten minutes to realize where the hell i am and what I'm doing cause I ahve the morning "stupids". Since I don't want to be "stuck" in them all day, i gradually come around.

Coffee works for some people,,,lol

Hope you are coming around,,,

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Old 07-05-2007, 01:52 PM
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Ugh- I HATE bad dreams. I have had dreams of heroin the past few nights as that is my abf drug of choice. Regardless of who is actually involved in the dream- heroin somehow seems to wind up in it and it makes me wake up feeling jolted and ill.
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Old 07-06-2007, 07:41 AM
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Regardless of who is actually involved in the dream- heroin somehow seems to wind up in it


Whenever we dream of drugs.....
It means that we want a "quick fix" to something/situation.

So it is not about heroin it is about you wanting to fix it.
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Old 07-06-2007, 07:59 AM
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For me my anxieties about my ex were expressed in my dreams (cheating, doing a lot of drugs etc).

I hated it. In retrospect, I think my subconscious was trying to tell me something as he was always doing these things!

I have read the best way to interpret dreams is to explore the emotional contant. I am weary of "universal interpretations".
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Old 07-06-2007, 08:01 AM
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hope you can check off the dream. blessings, k
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