enough is enough
 

Well...after another week of ridiculas behavior, I have had enough. I told my husband today that he had to leave, if he didn't leave I would pack his stuff up and get it out of the house, if he still comes back, I will again try to get a restraining order...I am not going to live the rest of my life this way...:( SS

Good for you!!!

It's tough, I know, however I am glad that you are choosing life over stagnation.

SS, I completely understand. I too got to that point. I know how hard this is for you. Just stay focused on yourself and stick to your guns.

thanks guys, but, I have to tell you five minutes after I drove away from him...I thought was that the right thing to do??? But, that didn't last long, I am doing the right thing, it is up to a mother to protect her children. The drinking every day is bad enough, but the behavior while drinking can not be tolerated anymore....when I told him that, he got that look on his face that I am sure all of you have seen.." what do you mean...it's a problem????

Yes, we mother bears must protect our cubs. Stick to your guns.

you and your child deserve a life of happiness and peace

take care

don't forget about "father bears"

I am sorry Steve.