visit with dad - good or bad idea???
visit with dad - good or bad idea???
XAH called for the first time in several weeks.
It is father's Day, wants to get the kids for the weekend. I told him that fathers day was not the only day to try and be a father. I told him that the kids could not spend the night with him that I would consider a couple of hours at his mom's or sisters.
I don't want to be mean or cruel, but I have no idea if he is drinking, don't know what he is doing, he has no water heater, no A/C (and we are talking deep south humidity)
Did I do the right thing.
My baby has not seen him in several months, he basically does not know who he is.
My middle child panics when he is mentioned. I just don't know what to do anymore.
Oh yeah and It is still all my fault - imagine that.
It is father's Day, wants to get the kids for the weekend. I told him that fathers day was not the only day to try and be a father. I told him that the kids could not spend the night with him that I would consider a couple of hours at his mom's or sisters.
I don't want to be mean or cruel, but I have no idea if he is drinking, don't know what he is doing, he has no water heater, no A/C (and we are talking deep south humidity)
Did I do the right thing.
My baby has not seen him in several months, he basically does not know who he is.
My middle child panics when he is mentioned. I just don't know what to do anymore.
Oh yeah and It is still all my fault - imagine that.
My baby has not seen him in several months, he basically does not know who he is.
My middle child panics when he is mentioned. I just don't know what to do anymore.
My middle child panics when he is mentioned. I just don't know what to do anymore.
Oh yeah and It is still all my fault - imagine that.
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