Addiction Neuroscience; heres what we know.interesting reading
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Hi Ted
You are so sweet to try so hard to understand for your brother.
I don't understand it either so don't feel bad.
I just know now that I don't have to understand why we are different from you and other normal/heavy drinkers who are not alcoholics. I don't understand you lot at all. I sometimes would like to understand why you can just have one drink and get up and walk away. For me that is freak central.
Not having to understand - that's the spiritual relief we have to find that a heavy drinker or freaky normie doesn't require in order to stop.
You are so sweet to try so hard to understand for your brother.
I don't understand it either so don't feel bad.
I just know now that I don't have to understand why we are different from you and other normal/heavy drinkers who are not alcoholics. I don't understand you lot at all. I sometimes would like to understand why you can just have one drink and get up and walk away. For me that is freak central.
Not having to understand - that's the spiritual relief we have to find that a heavy drinker or freaky normie doesn't require in order to stop.
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when you say your brother "NEVER" gets hangovers, do you actually live with him and
see him each morning after he gets loaded, bright eyed and bushy tailed, crystal clear lucid, efficient in motion and cognition, etc etc etc, no blood shot eyes, pleasant and not irritable?
see him each morning after he gets loaded, bright eyed and bushy tailed, crystal clear lucid, efficient in motion and cognition, etc etc etc, no blood shot eyes, pleasant and not irritable?
That make me think about a true story from someone I know that recovered from qualudes 25 years ago. he recounts how he calculated 24/7 dosing that would not lead to an overdose. he did actually manage to stay high quite a while before the fog got too thick and he eventually miscalculated and ended up in an ICU. He was later told how he was arrested stark naked believing he was picking qualude offs a neighbors bushes.
In a sense it is all academic because what addicts live in hospitals with people giving them incentives? In another sense it is important because if the truth is that it is not an uncontrollable disease but is a difficult choice based on opposing value systems and strengths, then that knowledge can help in setting up the most effective prevention programs and treatment programs. IRONICALLY, the disease-based programs teach how to build up one's strength and anti-drinking values as part of their treatment. However they also treat that the alcoholic is always at risk of slipping back in, which may be a great disincintive for some to drink that first drink, but may also be a license to go on a bender for others..
The stuff PET scanning has shown is specific to addicts. An addicted scientists Pet scan will be different from that of a non addicted scientist.
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Also I think the fact that I was far away from my family and had nobody coddling me by paying my bills, buying me groceries, fixing my car, putting a roof over my head and having to go to work with a hangover so I could do all these things for myself made a great impact on my disssion to quit.
I am very glad I took my drinking to another state away from all that support cause I could still be there getting aspirin and money for my hangover and drinking...
thanks,
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Perhaps it's a mixture of the factors that have been researched that lead to addiction. I do know that I've watched several of my relatives literally drink themselves to death. I do know that my AH gets drunk every evening and stays drunk almost every weekend. The last time I saw the man have a sober weekend was Labor Day '06. He also vomits a lot. So for me, I tend to view this as a disease. Otherwise, I simply cannot fathom why someone would find drinking to such excess being worth trashing one's health and even dying as a result of it.
Originally Posted by pilgrim
I just know now that I don't have to understand why we are different from you and other normal/heavy drinkers who are not alcoholics. I don't understand you lot at all. I sometimes would like to understand why you can just have one drink and get up and walk away. For me that is freak central.
Not having to understand - that's the spiritual relief we have to find that a heavy drinker or freaky normie doesn't require in order to stop.
take care,
ted
There's no doubt that alcoholics have a very different relationship with alcohol than do non-alcoholics and that their bodies react differently to the substance. That, I believe, we can all agree on.
This thread made me think of my own "allergy" to wheat. Let me explain....
For years I strongly craved bread. I craved it like a drug. And I would go on bread binges. I'd feel totally out of control and couldn't stop eating one piece after another. After a binge, I'd feel very sick for days. But, inevitably, another binge would be right around the corner.
I wanted to stop this vicious cycle with all my heart! I would try to control my bread intake. Didn't work. I tried to change to pasta. Didn't work. I just couldn't for the life of me understand why I was so intensely craving wheat.
This went on for a long time until I started to feel very sick all the time. I knew I had to do something. I began to suspect that I was craving wheat as if it were a drug. Thus, my logic followed that what was necessary was to completely 100% cut wheat out from my diet. And I did it. And you know what? The cravings went away, and my health resumed.
Now, cutting wheat out from my diet was NOT easy! I have had relapses. And it's amazing to me how if I eat just a little bit, I want to keep eating the whole loaf - I start feeling out of control. A part in my brain is screaming to keep eating it. But another part of my brain (the part that realizes the damage wheat does to my system) also has a voice, and it reminds me of the reprocussions of my actions.
I truly believe that my body reacts negatively to wheat. I have read that while this is not totally uncommon, most people on this planet do not have this reaction to wheat.
Although I felt caught in an addictive cycle, I broke free by making a difficult choice: cutting ALL my favorites foods out from my diet FOREVER. It has not been easy. But it's gotten easier with each passing year. I feel like new woman.
My reaction to eating wheat is not my fault. Just the way I am. But the choices I made regarding how to deal with the problem were my choice. And, that I believe, can only be explained by being blessed with a character strong enough to fight strong craving (at least the craving for wheat...smoking's a whole other issue...for another time).
I know that the craving for alcohol is probably much, much stronger than my craving for wheat. But this personal experience helps me make sense of the sick cycle that we all have had the pleasure of witnessing. Relating it to something I've personally gone through helps me to understand and emphathize.
In my wheat binge days, if someone had offered me an incentive to not go on a binge, like, let's say a $100 gift card to Macy's, I probably could have staved it off.
So it makes sense to me that those alcoholics in the study could control their addiction temporarily with the help of incentives. I just don't think it's a lasting solution, of course.
The only way to kick it is to take the bull by the horns and abstain 100% from whatever the drug is. Being able to do that probably has to do with personality and character factors.
ALTHOUGH....I do believe, after watching my STBXAH go crazy, that years of heavy drinking can deeply effect the A's ability to think like a "normal" person. Thus, making quitting almost impossible as they, at least my A, are so controlled by the drug and so mentally ill from the damage it has incurred, that they don't have the ability to make rational decisions any longer. It is perhaps because of the this that many alcoholics just keep drinking and drinking even though they seem to be suffering.
This thread made me think of my own "allergy" to wheat. Let me explain....
For years I strongly craved bread. I craved it like a drug. And I would go on bread binges. I'd feel totally out of control and couldn't stop eating one piece after another. After a binge, I'd feel very sick for days. But, inevitably, another binge would be right around the corner.
I wanted to stop this vicious cycle with all my heart! I would try to control my bread intake. Didn't work. I tried to change to pasta. Didn't work. I just couldn't for the life of me understand why I was so intensely craving wheat.
This went on for a long time until I started to feel very sick all the time. I knew I had to do something. I began to suspect that I was craving wheat as if it were a drug. Thus, my logic followed that what was necessary was to completely 100% cut wheat out from my diet. And I did it. And you know what? The cravings went away, and my health resumed.
Now, cutting wheat out from my diet was NOT easy! I have had relapses. And it's amazing to me how if I eat just a little bit, I want to keep eating the whole loaf - I start feeling out of control. A part in my brain is screaming to keep eating it. But another part of my brain (the part that realizes the damage wheat does to my system) also has a voice, and it reminds me of the reprocussions of my actions.
I truly believe that my body reacts negatively to wheat. I have read that while this is not totally uncommon, most people on this planet do not have this reaction to wheat.
Although I felt caught in an addictive cycle, I broke free by making a difficult choice: cutting ALL my favorites foods out from my diet FOREVER. It has not been easy. But it's gotten easier with each passing year. I feel like new woman.
My reaction to eating wheat is not my fault. Just the way I am. But the choices I made regarding how to deal with the problem were my choice. And, that I believe, can only be explained by being blessed with a character strong enough to fight strong craving (at least the craving for wheat...smoking's a whole other issue...for another time).
I know that the craving for alcohol is probably much, much stronger than my craving for wheat. But this personal experience helps me make sense of the sick cycle that we all have had the pleasure of witnessing. Relating it to something I've personally gone through helps me to understand and emphathize.
In my wheat binge days, if someone had offered me an incentive to not go on a binge, like, let's say a $100 gift card to Macy's, I probably could have staved it off.
So it makes sense to me that those alcoholics in the study could control their addiction temporarily with the help of incentives. I just don't think it's a lasting solution, of course.
The only way to kick it is to take the bull by the horns and abstain 100% from whatever the drug is. Being able to do that probably has to do with personality and character factors.
ALTHOUGH....I do believe, after watching my STBXAH go crazy, that years of heavy drinking can deeply effect the A's ability to think like a "normal" person. Thus, making quitting almost impossible as they, at least my A, are so controlled by the drug and so mentally ill from the damage it has incurred, that they don't have the ability to make rational decisions any longer. It is perhaps because of the this that many alcoholics just keep drinking and drinking even though they seem to be suffering.
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Could the brain not become "rewired" from substance use and if allowed enough time could also again rewire when not using substances? The brain has enough plasticity throughout most of life to do this, I believe.
Many here have brought up very valid points that it can be a complex combination of things including the substance, the duration of use, genetics, enviroment, etc.
Its never simple, is it?
Perhaps substance abuse and/or dependency is initally a physical reaction and after a detox or period of abstinence, the brain can then begin to think more clearly on working on a sobriety plan. Hard work, yes but do-able.
For me, it isnt a disease but can certainly lead to disease(s). Perhaps that is one factor in beginning to abstain - the costs and consequences of continuing, the benefits of not continuing, the health and legal complications that occur. Perhaps even more importantly, the respect and hope and encouragement and support to do so.
Many here have brought up very valid points that it can be a complex combination of things including the substance, the duration of use, genetics, enviroment, etc.
Its never simple, is it?
Perhaps substance abuse and/or dependency is initally a physical reaction and after a detox or period of abstinence, the brain can then begin to think more clearly on working on a sobriety plan. Hard work, yes but do-able.
For me, it isnt a disease but can certainly lead to disease(s). Perhaps that is one factor in beginning to abstain - the costs and consequences of continuing, the benefits of not continuing, the health and legal complications that occur. Perhaps even more importantly, the respect and hope and encouragement and support to do so.
JMHO.
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whatever the study is, whatever the conclusions are.....i think our culture is in the embryonic stage of even beginning to understand addictions.
so steve....a question.
according to the info you shared, what are the treatments available for addictions.
i can certainly see the scenario that this info provides in the actions of my own xah, because he was so deeply tormented by his actions and thoughts, and at all costs i always felt that he was working for his addictions survival, even during the times when he was doing the best he could.....which seemed to be mimicing a lifestyle that he wanted, but not fully embracing it. like he was an actor in play and everyone knew his parts, except him.
what is the prognosis in this theory?
so steve....a question.
according to the info you shared, what are the treatments available for addictions.
i can certainly see the scenario that this info provides in the actions of my own xah, because he was so deeply tormented by his actions and thoughts, and at all costs i always felt that he was working for his addictions survival, even during the times when he was doing the best he could.....which seemed to be mimicing a lifestyle that he wanted, but not fully embracing it. like he was an actor in play and everyone knew his parts, except him.
what is the prognosis in this theory?
I think the better analogy is to the cigarettes. For all his faults (and I'm sure mine are equal in number) AH has a very strong character. Maybe not the character I would wish for my own selfish reasons (that's my own bucket of problems), but I believe when I start thinking my character is stronger than someone else's I'm in dangerous waters.
JMHO.
JMHO.
Excellent point Denny.
I didn't mean to sound 'holier than thou'.
I probably should stop comparing what I would do with what AH has done. I do not have his sickness. I will never understand what he is going through. I will never understand the power it holds over him.
I just have a really hard time understanding how my AH can refuse help and let drinking destroy his life. Sometimes it's easier to think that he just is weak and gives into the urge. Most of the time, though, I think that he's so mentally ill with alcoholism that he can't think straight and, thus, can't make rational decisions anymore; that window passed him by years ago.
sigh.
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whatever the study is, whatever the conclusions are.....i think our culture is in the embryonic stage of even beginning to understand addictions.
so steve....a question.
according to the info you shared, what are the treatments available for addictions.
i can certainly see the scenario that this info provides in the actions of my own xah, because he was so deeply tormented by his actions and thoughts, and at all costs i always felt that he was working for his addictions survival, even during the times when he was doing the best he could.....which seemed to be mimicing a lifestyle that he wanted, but not fully embracing it. like he was an actor in play and everyone knew his parts, except him.
what is the prognosis in this theory?
so steve....a question.
according to the info you shared, what are the treatments available for addictions.
i can certainly see the scenario that this info provides in the actions of my own xah, because he was so deeply tormented by his actions and thoughts, and at all costs i always felt that he was working for his addictions survival, even during the times when he was doing the best he could.....which seemed to be mimicing a lifestyle that he wanted, but not fully embracing it. like he was an actor in play and everyone knew his parts, except him.
what is the prognosis in this theory?
i believe researchers are trying to find ways to use drugs that will impact the areas of the brain related to craving. there is a very good journal called "addiction" that can be read at most medical college libraries and/or hospitals with a substantial rehab program. it contains a lot of stuff re current strategies and research
http://www.addictionjournal.org/
http://www.blackwell-synergy.com/loi/ACER Alcoholism Journal (yes, even one just for booze)
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IMO many things can be used to reduce or eliminate cravings, and thus to impact the 'mid-brain'. They all affect brain chemistry:
anti-craving drugs
cognitive therapy to deal with anti-drinking beliefs and values and pro-drinking beliefs and values
behavioral exercises to increase other values
exercise
biofeedback
food
sleep
relaxation approaches
prayer and meditation
anything positive in life--friends, family, work, relationships
Some work faster than others, depending on the person.
My brother took naltrexone a few years ago, and reported absolutely no cravings for about a month. But, he didn't work on his values or beliefs or alternative positive anti-drinking activitie, and the cravings began to return. IMO he was bored and missed the positive affect he had from alcohol. He didn't want to quit enough, as the treatment was to impress a court judge, and not for himself only.
Motivation is key, because if you aren't motivated, you won't do the things that affect your own cravings--in my brother's case he took naltrexone in the morning, worked during the day, got cravings as the day wore on, didn't take any more naltrexone, and then drank at night. When told to take more naltrexone during work, he didn't want to. He liked the buzz too much--he didn't want to have less cravings.. He figured he was now functional, worked full time, so what's the problem?
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all u say is true IMO and well put. the textbooks say relapse serves a positive purpose in that is can further reinforce the absolute need to not take that first drink. It is the additional pain that provides the motivation to sober up again.
Its amazing how addicts can delude themselves into believing there is no problem because they are working.
all u say is true IMO and well put. the textbooks say relapse serves a positive purpose in that is can further reinforce the absolute need to not take that first drink. It is the additional pain that provides the motivation to sober up again.
Its amazing how addicts can delude themselves into believing there is no problem because they are working.
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all u say is true IMO and well put. the textbooks say relapse serves a positive purpose in that is can further reinforce the absolute need to not take that first drink. It is the additional pain that provides the motivation to sober up again.
Its amazing how addicts can delude themselves into believing there is no problem because they are working.
all u say is true IMO and well put. the textbooks say relapse serves a positive purpose in that is can further reinforce the absolute need to not take that first drink. It is the additional pain that provides the motivation to sober up again.
Its amazing how addicts can delude themselves into believing there is no problem because they are working.
ted
As it turned out the work slowed down, the drinking increased, then when the work increased I think the drinking didn't decrease much and his work and work relationships suffered. Then he was pretty much phased out from the work.
"Job or no job, wife or no wife, don't let an alcoholic say he cannot recover until he has these things...."
In other words, the problem is not the job, or lack of a job.
Relapse does serve an important purpose. However I'd much rather watch someone else come back in and tell me it still isn't working for them. For me, relapse is not a part of my recovery program.
That said, when I was still trying to quit on my own, I relapsed. And yes, it was that "final bender" that put me in enough pain to seek recovery.
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