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Sunflower isn't going to be around...at least for awhile.
Apparently she got reprimanded for something that happened on another forum and she is taking a leave of absence....
Please pray for her!!!
Apparently she got reprimanded for something that happened on another forum and she is taking a leave of absence....
Please pray for her!!!
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Hi Mallow--I was gonna come back for some support tonight as I am so sick from my lupus flare and anxious about my upcoming surgery.....first thing I get is another letter in my PM telling me how wrong I am about everything--then I check the posts and someone is going to town on Kermit....I just can't handle it here anymore....and its SUNFLOWER LOL
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Why not just block the PMs? You don't need that kind of energy. Telling you that you are "wrong"?, well, so what. There are people in the world who may not agree with us all of the time. Everyone is at home sitting in the middle of their own situation. Some people are just disagreeable no matter what and some just want to offer their own strong opinion. Shake off what you don't like and with those who are rude or you don't agree with, use that as a measure and be glad you don't think like they do. I get private messages that are very nice and some very caustic. Some days clicking "delete", feels so empowering.
Life should be so easy, hey, maybe it is...
Life should be so easy, hey, maybe it is...
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Sunflower....I agree with Mallow....I have had the same thing-I can guarntee we all have gone through this- I know at times things are said or not said from a post that I leave or others-and the way I feel about it I have learned and it was not only a few years ago when I was in here all the time and now that this has happened to many...
Trying to do the clicking of the "delete" not only in pm's but in your brain when you feel this or that because it is not worth the expended energy! (((Hugs)))
Trying to do the clicking of the "delete" not only in pm's but in your brain when you feel this or that because it is not worth the expended energy! (((Hugs)))
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well I have completely turned off my PM--then I just don't have to deal with that issue--but when it comes from moderators and andministrators--I still get those and those are really the ones that upset me--they all had a different twist on it.Plus on of the people in the group PM me that she is reporting me. Oh well. I do my best here.
I don't think I can shed too much sunshine around right now unfortunately,,,,,too much going on.
I will get through it though
Thanks guys for your support-I appreciate it more than you know.
I swear this alcohol disease leaves us all a mess no matter how it turns out..
The persons post I answered --telling her to call 911 and get help?
Everyone felt opposite of me and thats OK
Next day--he was in jail--and for 5 years-because he was on probation,,,breaks my heart.
I don't think I can shed too much sunshine around right now unfortunately,,,,,too much going on.
I will get through it though
Thanks guys for your support-I appreciate it more than you know.
I swear this alcohol disease leaves us all a mess no matter how it turns out..
The persons post I answered --telling her to call 911 and get help?
Everyone felt opposite of me and thats OK
Next day--he was in jail--and for 5 years-because he was on probation,,,breaks my heart.
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OK I have been a total ass--over emotional-you name it!!!!!!Why should I care what anyone thinks? (cause I love everyone) I am weak and stupid and childish.
I run away from everything-I over react--maybe because for so long I have had to face so much alone-too much-and I hurt when others hurt.
The worst is over right now for me and my AS-I should be happy-and I am but obviously it has lefts its mark and changed me some.
I would do it all over again in a minute though to see my AS where he is at.
I am a jerk-a crybaby-I talk too much--you name it
There now You know all my weaknesses-I am Human(ouch)
But I am one hell of a SURVIVOR!!!!!!!
How many melt downs have I had here? I think this is my second--I guess that makes me crazy as well LOL
I am trying guys I really am!!! I am not going over to another forum again! You are too good to me here......
I run away from everything-I over react--maybe because for so long I have had to face so much alone-too much-and I hurt when others hurt.
The worst is over right now for me and my AS-I should be happy-and I am but obviously it has lefts its mark and changed me some.
I would do it all over again in a minute though to see my AS where he is at.
I am a jerk-a crybaby-I talk too much--you name it
There now You know all my weaknesses-I am Human(ouch)
But I am one hell of a SURVIVOR!!!!!!!
How many melt downs have I had here? I think this is my second--I guess that makes me crazy as well LOL
I am trying guys I really am!!! I am not going over to another forum again! You are too good to me here......
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We do care what people think because we care about people. In recovery, it hurts when there is any indication that we aren't doing it right or we have any agenda but to help whoever we can.
You are an inspiration to everyone here. That's what we do here, you're allowed to be imperfect and it's OK.
You are an inspiration to everyone here. That's what we do here, you're allowed to be imperfect and it's OK.
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