sunflower update
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I dont know what happened,but am so glad your staying...
I know,that when i first found out about my health issues,things,people,and places would really bother me.So its understandable for sure.Keep being you.And next time you melt down,we are here to help pick you up,along with God,and His love for you.You are no longer all alone.
My prayers are with you,
I know,that when i first found out about my health issues,things,people,and places would really bother me.So its understandable for sure.Keep being you.And next time you melt down,we are here to help pick you up,along with God,and His love for you.You are no longer all alone.
My prayers are with you,
Hi Sunflower, glad you decided to stay.
What I know about me is that I am F.I.N.E. - Fouled up, Insecure, Neurotic and Emotional... most of the time, but especially before I got into a program where I could talk about what was going on with me.
In my "real" world, I had set things up so that I was always the caregiver - and to be honest, that gave me a huge feeling of "power". But it was only an illusion, because when I was really scared and hurt... I really had never allowed anyone to step into the role of giving ... just to me.
At Alanon, a lot of us are there because we ARE codependents and caregivers. So they will "tag" me if I get TOO much into that role with them. Yet, they are also very giving, loving people who will love me, walk with me during the tough times... and even go with me to places when I am really, really scared.
We can't go "with you" to the docs and hold your hand when you get your results, but we can be HERE with you... and we are. You can be vulnerable here and receive unconditional love. And you don't owe anyone here anything. (((Sunflower)))
What I know about me is that I am F.I.N.E. - Fouled up, Insecure, Neurotic and Emotional... most of the time, but especially before I got into a program where I could talk about what was going on with me.
In my "real" world, I had set things up so that I was always the caregiver - and to be honest, that gave me a huge feeling of "power". But it was only an illusion, because when I was really scared and hurt... I really had never allowed anyone to step into the role of giving ... just to me.
At Alanon, a lot of us are there because we ARE codependents and caregivers. So they will "tag" me if I get TOO much into that role with them. Yet, they are also very giving, loving people who will love me, walk with me during the tough times... and even go with me to places when I am really, really scared.
We can't go "with you" to the docs and hold your hand when you get your results, but we can be HERE with you... and we are. You can be vulnerable here and receive unconditional love. And you don't owe anyone here anything. (((Sunflower)))
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(((Hugs))) and more and more for you Sunflower! Lots of prayers as well-keep up the positive it makes us keep on the right track! I feel that it has just been a crazy week for alot of us in our own way-kind of tilting on the track-but it is all good and ok-just as long as we do not fall off again-so lean on us-this too shall pass!
Love & Hugs & Prayers Sun!
Let the sun shine on you today and always......
Love & Hugs & Prayers Sun!
Let the sun shine on you today and always......
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