I hit the send button
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Join Date: May 2004
Location: over yonder
Posts: 1,548
I love all the Nuts on SR. LOL Some are funnier Nutz than others, thankful for funny ones, we all need a laugh.
I love amends, so fun to say I was wrong, instead of trying to prove I am right.
Fun one would be "I should not have said that to you even tho I think 100 times worse of you, accept my amends."
(Sounds like them at times) ??
I love amends, so fun to say I was wrong, instead of trying to prove I am right.
Fun one would be "I should not have said that to you even tho I think 100 times worse of you, accept my amends."
(Sounds like them at times) ??
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Join Date: Dec 2006
Location: Canada
Posts: 4,580
Don't have a "nut" remark. Just wanted to say that there is nothing wrong with telling someone to "leave you alone". You need time and space right now. You need to both heal and protect your heart and you need the room to exhale awhile. Don't kick yourself for asserting your feelings. Let it be. Life is long and winding and things work out as they should. Right now...just breathe and keep on keepin on.
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Join Date: Dec 2006
Location: Booneyville USA
Posts: 246
You guys are cracking me up 
I swear sometimes I just come here for the comic relief! 
As for hitting the send button: who says we have to be the bigger person all the time? I say we are just as entitled to a melt down or blow up as anybody else! Look how much time we wasted trying to FIX and CONTROL? We deserve to let it all out too! Kermit I don't think you were being spiteful. I think you were being honest. Good for you! And if you feel badly about it now you could always send an email to apologize stating you were PMSing!
I swear sometimes I just come here for the comic relief! As for hitting the send button: who says we have to be the bigger person all the time? I say we are just as entitled to a melt down or blow up as anybody else! Look how much time we wasted trying to FIX and CONTROL? We deserve to let it all out too! Kermit I don't think you were being spiteful. I think you were being honest. Good for you! And if you feel badly about it now you could always send an email to apologize stating you were PMSing!
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Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: Santa Rosa, CA
Posts: 34
An acronym that I learned in Al-anon was THINK:
Thoughtful
Helpful
Intelligent
Necessary
Kind
We're supposed to use this BEFORE we open our big yaps to tell others exactly how we feel and what we think. The problem is that I think most of my deragotory comments are
Thoughtful _ I had to think of them, right?
Helpful, well it helped me to get these thoughts off my chest
Intelligent - well I am educated, so most things I say are reasonably intelligent
Necessary - well, he has to know what I'm thinking, cause he's not a mind reader
Kind - well I can't come up with a reasonable explaination for this one.
Do you think I have a grasp on this concept, LOL.
Seriously, if I could just remember to THINK (not the sarcastic stuff above) I would probably avoid alot of the senseless arguments and conversations I've had with my AH.
Work the program, work the program, work the program, work the program.
Karen
Thoughtful
Helpful
Intelligent
Necessary
Kind
We're supposed to use this BEFORE we open our big yaps to tell others exactly how we feel and what we think. The problem is that I think most of my deragotory comments are
Thoughtful _ I had to think of them, right?
Helpful, well it helped me to get these thoughts off my chest
Intelligent - well I am educated, so most things I say are reasonably intelligent
Necessary - well, he has to know what I'm thinking, cause he's not a mind reader
Kind - well I can't come up with a reasonable explaination for this one.
Do you think I have a grasp on this concept, LOL.
Seriously, if I could just remember to THINK (not the sarcastic stuff above) I would probably avoid alot of the senseless arguments and conversations I've had with my AH.
Work the program, work the program, work the program, work the program.
Karen
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