Too much.........
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Too much.........
Yesterday I went to the noon meeting and I swear I barely had time to get in the door of the church and the ex drives into the yard. He's sitting down the road somewhere watching me go up to the church.
He comes in and he starts with his nonsense so I told him there was absolutely no reason why we EVER had to be in the same meeting together seeing as there are five a day, everyday.
He says he wants to talk to me that he still loves me and I told him to get out of the meeting. He stood there and made a big scene in front of people and I looked at him waved bye bye and pointed to the door. So he left after the playing the victim in front of everyone. It was quite pathetic really.
Cat
He comes in and he starts with his nonsense so I told him there was absolutely no reason why we EVER had to be in the same meeting together seeing as there are five a day, everyday.
He says he wants to talk to me that he still loves me and I told him to get out of the meeting. He stood there and made a big scene in front of people and I looked at him waved bye bye and pointed to the door. So he left after the playing the victim in front of everyone. It was quite pathetic really.
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If he truly loved me he would have not lied to me for 3 years and relapsed twice and verbally abused me in front of my son and the list goes on and on.
And then he brings some blond to the meeting on Saturday and then two days later he's telling me that he loves me.
Well guess what, don't need that kind of love.
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And then he brings some blond to the meeting on Saturday and then two days later he's telling me that he loves me.
Well guess what, don't need that kind of love.
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My sponsor says that Love is just another 4 letter word to the alcholic. They arent even capable of loving themselves. too bad we love them or we wouldnt be hanging in... you think?
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OH I had that happen too. Mine wanted to meet all the people who had "turned me against him"
Note to A's: An Al Anon meeting is NOT the place to try to exert your power. Trust me, you'll be squashed like a bug.
LOL
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Note to A's: An Al Anon meeting is NOT the place to try to exert your power. Trust me, you'll be squashed like a bug.
LOL
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Originally Posted by CatsPajamas 
OH I had that happen too. Mine wanted to meet all the people who had "turned me against him"
Note to A's: An Al Anon meeting is NOT the place to try to exert your power. Trust me, you'll be squashed like a bug.
LOL
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Note to A's: An Al Anon meeting is NOT the place to try to exert your power. Trust me, you'll be squashed like a bug.
LOL
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Yes it was an A.A meeting. i told him to leave it an dhe kicked up a big fuss to look like the poor abused victim.
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Originally Posted by denny57
Am I wrong - wasn't this an AA meeting?
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OH sorry - my mistake.
Amended to read: Note to A's: An AA meeting is NOT the place to try to exert your power. Trust me, you'll be squashed like a bug. And then they'll sic the Anons on you.
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Amended to read: Note to A's: An AA meeting is NOT the place to try to exert your power. Trust me, you'll be squashed like a bug. And then they'll sic the Anons on you.
Cat
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