Cynay

Stopping Victimization


Before recovery, many of us lacked a frame of reference with which to name the victimization and abuse in our life. We may have thought it was normal that people mistreated us. We may have believed we deserved mistreatment; we may have been attracted to people who mistreated us.

We need to let go, on a deep level, of our need to be victimized and to be victims. We need to let go of our need to be dysfunctional relationships and systems at work, in love, in family relationships, in friendships. We deserve better. We deserve much better. It is our right. When we believe in our right to happiness, we will have happiness. We will fight for that right, and the fight will emerge from our souls. Break free from oppression and victimization.

Today, I will liberate myself by letting go of my need to be a victim and I'll explore my freedom to take care of myself. That liberation will not take me further away from people I love. It will bring me closer to people and more in harmony with God's plan for my life.

denny57

Thanks, Cynay, I love this reading. Because the first dozen times I read it, it p'd me off - what do you mean my NEED to be a victim?

LOL

Cynay

LOL your not joking.... I felt the same.

It ranked right up there with Al-anon telling me Im as sick if not more then he is.... I sooooo remember that.

Thanks for the chuckle.