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Mr. Christian 12-20-2006 03:47 PM

Update:
 
UPDATE:




Well so much has been going on that I’ve shared with you so I think since it’s all over lapping now I’d write a chapter.

Got my CAT SCAN today, it went ok I guess I wont know anything till tomorrow or the next day.
Back of my neck is still killing me, and I hate taking any pills for it.




Lady T as I call her has made contact. She wanted to find out how I was and talk. I filled her in and then I just came out and asked her about how she really felt regarding us.
I told her that this silent treatment after all the emotion, sex, and time we shared together was driving me nuts and I was too old to play games.
She said she never expected to meet someone and fall head over heals. Her boyfriend of 2 yr. dumped her just a few months before we met, and still was not really over him.

Then we me and everything was great. But she got scared and confused with the way she was feeling.
Then on top of that her ex boyfriend calls and said he made a mistake in dumping her and wants her back.
SO she says she is sitting there crying over not one, but 2 guys now because whatever decision she makes, someone will be hurt.

She told me she was praying for me since I was feeling sick and she wanted to be here for me. I told, then come over and be here, hell you just live a block away.

Well she ended up crying when I told her how much I cared for her and that as much as I hate to say it, the other guy had his chance. But with that I can not tell her what to do, that she had to decide for her self.



Now some crazy stuff.

I got a subpoena in the mail to testify against the ex husband that was beating up my wife. For those of you that don’t know, she moved in with her 1st husband after we split and he beat her. She had called me one night while it was happening; I could hear her screaming. I had called the police and they had me pick her up from the station. I then got her some where safe.

But anyway now I need to do this.



Well I guess that brings us up to date.

Tune in next week my friends, same bat time, same bat channel.

denny57 12-20-2006 04:21 PM

Focus on your good health, Mr. C. Let Lady T figure her world out, and from the sounds of it, your testimony can be short and sweet. (not that wife beating has anything sweet about it, that's for sure, but you know what I mean)

Keep us posted on the scan and take care.

p.s. you really cracked me up on the other thread. thanks for that.

elizabeth1979 12-20-2006 04:57 PM

Hey Mr C.
Im glad the CT is out of the way and you are onto the next step. I feel the same about pills. I hope you can get some relief.

Subpeona's are not fun, regardless of the subject matter. You sound very good. I agree with Denny, short and to the point.

Wishing you peace and relief.

Zoey 12-20-2006 06:46 PM

Mr. C, I missed your update and sent you a PM. Sorry I am not more alert.
Keep us posted on your health and emotions. Best always.

mazey 12-20-2006 07:39 PM

Hey, glad the CT scan is done...I reallly think it will be okay. Hope you can find out relieving news soon and get some peace and hopefully move on to the right treatment for the problem/pain. (My daughter ended up canceling the biopsy today....it has improved and she would like to wait a few days and see if it continues to improve before doing it.) Prayed for you this am....Linda

CatsTail 12-21-2006 04:58 AM

Mr. C,

Glad your cat scan is out of the way.

Ngaire

kermit 12-21-2006 06:28 AM

Hey my friend... Come see us, not because you "need" allanon, but because you can use af ew hugs. I will be there Christmas eve... It is the time I "need" it most. I just want to be there for you k?

Mr. Christian 12-21-2006 04:51 PM

Hi,
I got the results back today from the scan.
It seems it is a case of Sinusitis. A pretty bad one at that. It’s pressing up against some nerves and causing the pain.


I picked up some antibiotics today that they will have me on for a week.

I’m very relieved to say the least.

cmc 12-21-2006 05:00 PM

:kitty:
Whew! I am glad it's something that is treatable! Things should calm down in there after the meds begin to work. Take care and get some rest when you can.
sending good thoughts and prayers too,
cmc

embraced2000 12-21-2006 05:00 PM

great news, mr. c.....

what a relief, huh????

take care
jeri

dollydo 12-21-2006 05:02 PM

Mr C,

Anyone who wears a Superman costume can overcome anything!

Did the doctor prescribe Kriptonit (or, however you spell it)

My Best,

Lois Lane

Mr. Christian 12-21-2006 05:03 PM

Thanks, I cant begin to tell you how much of a relief it is.
Im glad my head is not going fall off any time soon!

findmyself 12-21-2006 05:48 PM

Mr. C , knowing how hard it is to wait for test results, always thinking the worst. I'm glad to hear it's treatable and you'll be good as new soon. Sorry your in pain now but hope that to will be gone soon. Hope you enjoy your holiday.

Zoey 12-21-2006 06:55 PM

Happy for you that it is treatable. Get well soon. ((HUGS))

embraced2000 12-22-2006 04:32 AM

mr c....not to worry lovey.....if yer head fell off....we would "super"-glue it back on.....hey, we're a bunch of codies....we will take care of you real good if your head falls off....we'll buy the best superglue money can buy, ok?

take your meds and have a great day
love to you
jeri

mazey 12-22-2006 08:48 PM

Mr. C, so glad your CT results showed something totally & hopefully easily treated.

Mr. Christian 12-23-2006 09:22 AM

Thank you all for writing.

Well at least that take care of the medical.
What really sucks, and it might sound wrong, but I hate being alone on Christmas.
I still have heard nothing from the woman I want to hear from since last Tuesday.

Everyone seems so happy right now. Friends, family and loved ones.
I wish I had someone to share with.


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