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Old 12-20-2006, 08:23 AM
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Haven't been here in a while....

It's been almost 6 months since I kicked him out. He called almost everyday for a long time. Begging, pleading but never changing.
He finally gave up. He wouldn't stop drinking so I never gave him another chance.
He moved Saturday. I'm so depressed about it. I still love him. I still care about him. When does the pain and worry go away?

My head always knew he was an alcoholic but my heart never cared.

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Old 12-20-2006, 08:35 AM
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Hi Jackson, Im sorry to hear you are hurting. THis thread may be of some comfort.

http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...ain-stops.html
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Old 12-20-2006, 08:46 AM
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Thank you

Thanks. This has been the hardest 6 months of my life. Even harder than actually living with him and his disease. Even though I know it's not true I felt as though I shut the door on him. He begged me to help him get sober. I knew that's something that I couldn't do but he just looked at it like I turned him away.
Thank you.
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Old 12-20-2006, 09:18 AM
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(((Hugs to you))). Yes, when they are no longer in the house with us, it makes the situation a different kind of diffucult that we deal with.

Just take each day one at a time. You did everything you could, but it is the alcoholic's responsibility for their actions and recovery.

I know it is hard, hon.......Been there, still going through that. Please keep posting.
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