FormerDoormat

Maybe he did see you, sweetie, and you just weren't aware of it. If given the opportunity, I wouldn't enter the kingdom of heaven without once last glimpse of the people I love. Perhaps his last vision wasn't of that hotel room. Perhaps it was of you.

Sending much love your way and prayers for peace in the upcoming days ahead.

Cynay

I agree with FDM

We dont know what happens, but I have a feeling that we are taken by angels.... and Im almost sure that we see what we love most.... and that somehow we are able to comfort those people ... I felt my parents when they passed... and it was a loving, peaceful feeling.

Enjoy the feeling of him beside you because I think that is real, just as real as any thing tangable .... after all, its our feelings that are our passions right?

Please dont forget to take care of yourself too hon.

embraced2000

i believe he is with you, tomsgirl. he's right there. he will comfort you.

i am so deeply sorry, sweetheart. my xhusbands name is tom and he used to go to motels to drink. this was the phone call i always thought i would recieve, and still do.

please take care of yourself, and know you are in so many peoples prayers and hearts.....

much love to you
jeri

StandingStrong

I truly don't know what to say. The words "I'm sorry for your loss" really just don't seem to be enough.
Just know that you are in my thoughts.

TexasGirl

Oh, Janet, I too am so sorry. I've enjoyed knowing you and learning from you over the past couple of years, and I hate to see anyone hurting or going through any hard times. We are here for you. ((((((())))))))

cmc

********{TomsGirl}}}}}

I'm sorry for your loss and will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

Tally

Oh TG, your words made me cry...I'm so very sorry for your loss xxxx

Fire_Wind_Rain

I have not posted here at SR in a very long time, but your post prompted me to share that I just lost my alcoholic/addict brother to suicide a few days before Halloween. He died with the NA book open and next to the phone which was off the hook. There is no greater pain, nor greater sense of helplessness, anger and sorrow.

Many blessings to you.

Janitw

Janet -

He is watching you and he is there with you....don't think for a moment that he's not because he is...

Janit

outonalimb

(((Janet)))

I am so very sorry for your loss.

dollydo

Janet,

So very sorry for your loss.

Dolly

deax

Oh TomsGirl... Your last post makes me want to cry.

I just wanted to send more love, hugs and prayers your way again today. I truly admire your strength and compassion. And I absolutely believe he's right there on the couch with you, too. I've had experiences myself that make me a strong believer that those who have passed are still with us and watch over us every day. Take comfort in that.

(((TomsGirl)))

lilac

My heart goes out to you, as do my prayers.

FormerDoormat

Sending prayers for peace for you tonight Janet. And you, too, Shannon. May your higher powers bring you peace.

TomsGirl

Hi. Here is my husband obituary. His funeral is Wednesday.

http://www.legacy.com/telegram/Obitu...sonId=20349912

I had to id him today. They just showed me pics of his face. Oh, if all A's could see what the booze did to him. So, so sad.

AllTooSober

(((TomsGirl))) The obituary was lovely, brought tears to my eyes. Hang in there.

CatsPajamas

Janet,

What a lovely tribute to your husband. Take good care of yourself, ok?


Hugs
Cat

denny57

Thank you for sharing that, Janet. He looks like a very kind man.

deedee

(((Janet)))

I'm sorry you had to ID him ... that's really hard. It sounds like he was a very special man. Hugs and prayers to you for strength, comfort and peace.

deax

(((TomsGirl))) What a touching obituary. So wonderful that you got share the Red Sox victory together a few years ago, that must have meant a lot to him! Just one of the many wonderful memories you will be able to keep forever.