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AH has been "sweet" to me tonight. He said if an apartment is what I need, then so be it. He says he thinks I need a week away somewhere by myself.
Whatever ! ! He said he will cut back from 6 beers a night to only 4 (WTF!!)
He has begun to snoop on the neighbors with binoculars !!! Freaky !!!!
I began reading one of the books recommended to me here, and it is so me.
I don't understand why he says he doesn't want me to go, but if an apartment is what I need, then do it?
Whatever ! ! He said he will cut back from 6 beers a night to only 4 (WTF!!)
He has begun to snoop on the neighbors with binoculars !!! Freaky !!!!
I began reading one of the books recommended to me here, and it is so me.
I don't understand why he says he doesn't want me to go, but if an apartment is what I need, then do it?
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He's playing with your head, trying to manipulate you, making it seem that it doesn't matter to him that you're leaving so you'll run back into his arms and rescue him again. Reverse psychology can be pretty effective.
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Originally Posted by Jill
Reverse psychology can be pretty effective.
sorry but for the past week I've had this really weird feeling someone is looking in our windows at night. The other morning I went to use the phone and it was dead. I traced the line to the box on the side of the house and someone had unplugged the line from the box. This is the jack that clicks in place. It doesn't fall out , blow out, it has to be pinched and pulled out. I plugged it back in and the phone was fine. I think I'd have to tell them what he's doing. I don't blame you for not caring. I would appreciate it very much if you told me. Especailly if I had children in the house.
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Reverse psychology.........isn't it lovely?!
Mine is still trying that on me. Right now we are in limbo, he hasn't moved out yet but isn't here very much. That's his latest brainstorm....Absence makes the heart grow fonder kind of thing. So clever. Sometimes all I can do now is laugh at him. It's not intentional but when I see and hear the things that used to work on me, it is truly laughable. Laughing at myself too I guess.
Good Luck!
Mine is still trying that on me. Right now we are in limbo, he hasn't moved out yet but isn't here very much. That's his latest brainstorm....Absence makes the heart grow fonder kind of thing. So clever. Sometimes all I can do now is laugh at him. It's not intentional but when I see and hear the things that used to work on me, it is truly laughable. Laughing at myself too I guess.
Good Luck!
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I think they have some kind or radar that immediately informs them when we start to detach, or get mad, or whatever. Then they know they need to be "sweet" to reel us back in. (((Hugs))) to you and good luck with everything!
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