LIFEOUTTHERE

Sorry about two post in one day, but the AH finally knows about the divorce papers, which I have told him over and over again, but I guess he did not beleive me. I told him where to go to sign the papers and he said, you are really serious? And I said, Well, Yeah. He then got very angry, very angry. I am so glad I decided to tell him over the phone instead of take him the rough draft copy for him to look over. He has never really been violent towards me, only verbally, but I think today he might have really hurt me if he could have gotten his hands on me.

I am so releived that, hopefully this is just about over with. Just right now I feel like a concrete block has been lifted from my shoulders. It is like he was sucking the life out of me. Probobly does not make since, but anyway.

I really never thought that I would ever make it this far. I figured I would have gone back after a few days, but after ready here it has really helped me to understand better. I want to thank you all for sharing your experiences with me.

Thanks,
Dot

mallowcup

I'm glad you have this weight lifted. You probably thought you wouldn't make it this far and he was counting on it. Yikes. He has a lot of catching up to do. I'd steer clear.

kermit

Good luck. I'm parying for you

Cynay

yep stear clear and relax....

Im glad your feeling better. There denial is almost as good as ours.

lilac

Good for you !!! I hope that I can be as brave as you are