There's Someone Out There!
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Join Date: Dec 2005
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There's Someone Out There!
Has it been anyone else's experience?........I know people mean well, pep talk or whatever, but it seems like everyone feels the need to let me know there's someone out there for me. 
I don't need that. I am really looking forward to being alone again. The last thing on my mind is another relationship. Some of the perks would be helpful right about now (if you know what I mean) but that can be a totally seperate thing.
Just venting a little, I guess I expect the people who know me to remember me, from before I was lost. Remember that I never depended on being in a relationship. Was single by choice for many years. I wonder....Have I been gone that long?
I don't care if anyone is out there. All I care about right now is that I am here, not feeling lost anymore.
I don't need that. I am really looking forward to being alone again. The last thing on my mind is another relationship. Some of the perks would be helpful right about now (if you know what I mean) but that can be a totally seperate thing.
Just venting a little, I guess I expect the people who know me to remember me, from before I was lost. Remember that I never depended on being in a relationship. Was single by choice for many years. I wonder....Have I been gone that long?
I don't care if anyone is out there. All I care about right now is that I am here, not feeling lost anymore.
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Join Date: Dec 2004
Location: Chicago, IL
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Did I miss something...didn't you just go to the lawyer....
Why in the world is anyone assuming that you want someone?????
Friends...should we just shoot them or just shake our heads and laugh!!!!
Why in the world is anyone assuming that you want someone?????
Friends...should we just shoot them or just shake our heads and laugh!!!!
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Join Date: May 2004
Location: In Search of Finding ME!
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I think this tends to be a normal reaction from other's.
I just asked my cousin (who is also a friend and coworker) why people keep telling me to move on, etc. (She does it as well) and she said, "People just want to see you happy. You deserve to be happy." etc etc etc.
I explained to her how I felt and she said that she understood and hasn't mentioned it since.
Interesting enough - I guess I just look at it this way. They may want me to be happy with someone else other than Ah - but I know how I feel about him - and I know that I'm not ready to move on yet. If the well-meaning people in my life feel that I need someone to be happy - then they've obviously got issues! LOL
They mean well. They just don't "get it". Their issue - not yours.
I just asked my cousin (who is also a friend and coworker) why people keep telling me to move on, etc. (She does it as well) and she said, "People just want to see you happy. You deserve to be happy." etc etc etc.
I explained to her how I felt and she said that she understood and hasn't mentioned it since.
Interesting enough - I guess I just look at it this way. They may want me to be happy with someone else other than Ah - but I know how I feel about him - and I know that I'm not ready to move on yet. If the well-meaning people in my life feel that I need someone to be happy - then they've obviously got issues! LOL
They mean well. They just don't "get it". Their issue - not yours.
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Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: california
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YES! Everyone is trying to move me on to my next Husband. I DON"T WANT ONE! Hello. I'm still trying to get divorced.Another man is something I sure as hell don't want right now. I know exacttly where you are comming from
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