Mine's a little pinkish box with an arrow in the bottom right hand corner. If you hover the cursor over it, it will say "show chat".
I don't 'do' chat because I can't keep up, chatting is in real time, whereas the forums are just whenever someone replies.
I'd rather live in my car with
my dogs than live in a castle without
Dogs may not be our whole lives, but they make our lives whole.
Don't wait for the Last Judgement. It takes place every day. -Albert Camus
Find the good and praise it. - Alex Haley