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Whiners Anonymous ... Part 249 ~ "A Whine Is Born"


The whining continues from here.

https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...ml#post7121765 (Whiners Anonymous ... Part 248 ~"Whine Thing, You Make My Heart Sing")

Thank you for the new title, Suze!





W.A. Preamble!

Whiners Anonymous is a fellowship of men and women who share their experience,

strength and hope with each other,

that they may solve their whining problems and help others to recover from whinerism.

The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop whineing.

There are no dues or fees for W.A. membership;

we are self-supporting through our own contributed whines.

W.A. is not allied with any sect, denomination, politics, organization, institutions,

TV, radio, or Oprah Book of the Month Club!

does not wish to engage in any controversy, yeah right!,

neither endorses nor opposes any causes.

Our primary purpose is to stop whine'n and help other whineaholics to achieve non whineity.

Whiners Anonymous Help (WAH!)

Do you whine, complain, or snivel? Are you a grumpy old fart?
Do you seek out others in taverns or internet chat rooms to whine about things?
Do people ever tell you to "like it or lump it"?
Are you asked, "What are you crying about?"
Do friends or family seem less likely to talk to you as the years go by?
Do you constantly tell other people they whine too much?

If you do any of these things, you may be in need of the WAH! 12 step program.
Whining is for tiny tots! Do you want to die a lonely old man/woman and whine about the prospect?
Stop whining now!


The WAH! 12 Step Program:


1. Admit you whine.

Just say, "I am a whiner."


2. Admit your whining is a problem.

It's not enough to know you whine--you have to realize it interferes with your life. Tell yourself, your spouse, and a friend that you have a problem with whining, that all you have ever done is whine. But don't whine to God! He already knows, all too well. God just sat back while you whined away the years. It's not His fault, after all, so don't go whining to Him with your problem.


3. Seek help to cure your whining.

Whining is but one of your many shortcomings, since you are a miserable excuse for a human being. Another shortcoming is you can't do anything for yourself, otherwise you would not whine. Go whine to somebody to help you--that's all you know how to do, remember?


4. Laugh at your whine.

Made a decision to turn your constant whining over to your sense of humor and learn to "lovingly and wholeheartedly" laugh at yourself each time you whine. Be prepared to be given the nickname "Loony Tunes," however.


5. Step out of your shoes.

Put your whine in perspective. There's a woman in Africa living in a mud hut with a grass roof and NO indoor plumbing. She lives off of $27 a year. She is totally blind and collects sticks for firewood, hoping the next stick isn't a snake. Now, what was your whine again?


6. Eat something nasty.

Eat some vegetable you hate without whining about the taste. And don't hold your nose or cover it with cheese!


7. Listen to other whiners.

Get a part job in a complaint department and listen to other peoples' whines 8 hours a day. But don't complain about your job! If you do, go back to step 3. Go a whole week listening to your wife/husband complain and just say "yes dear." If you can't, go back to step 2. Have kids and listen to them whine--that's how you sound to others. Pay back time! What goes around, comes around!


8. Make a victim list.

Make of list of all persons you thought you had harmed and hope to hell that they'd forgotten all the minuscule crap you'd blown out of proportion. Ask them if you ever whined, and then be prepared to take the return whine.


9. Beat the crap out of your parents.

After all, they raised a whiner. Yes, you started early, but it is not your fault!


10. Beware of falling off the wagon.

Resign yourself to the fact you are going to whine each time you try to stick to your guns when you know you are right. Once a whiner, always a whiner, they say. So either just admit your are wrong or go back to step 1. Cripes, you mean you really want to go back to step 1 after getting to step 10?


11. Whine to your dog.

They love you no matter how much you whine. It's called unconditional love. Unless of course they sense your foul mood. Disguise your whine by mixing the words "good dog" in every sentence. They only know so many words--those two they know. Otherwise, your dog would hate you like all the people you know.


12. Help others.

Help some other whiney-assed basstard with his whine problem. You get to whine about their whining. It's great.

so have at it!

whine, snivle, rant, bitch, and rave away!!!

W.A. Disclaimer; just be prepared for the results


12 Promises of WA

If we are painstaking about developing our whining techniques, we will be amazed at how proficient we become at expressing our dissatisfaction with people, places, and things that irk us.

1. We are going to know a new freedom of expression.

2. We will realize it's phony to pretend happiness when we just aren't feeling it.

3. We will not regret our whines nor wish to deny their validity.

4. We will comprehend the word serenity and we will know the peace of unburdening ourselves by sharing our whines at WA.

5. No matter how far down in the dumps we feel, we will see how our experience can benefit our fellow whiners.

6. That Pollyanna feeling of "la-dee-da, la-dee-da" will disappear.

7. We will set our own whines aside as we realize someone else's whine may be more deserving of our emotional support .

8. Self-centeredness will not be as prevalent, as we share and compare whining.

9. Our whole attitude and outlook upon ordinary blahs in general, and whining in particular will take on a new meaning.

10. Fear of being recognized and/or ostracized as a Chronic Whiner will leave us.

11. We will intuitively know that healthy whining is not to be stifled, but shared with others like ourselves.

12. We will suddenly realize that sharing a good whine can be very cathartic and we no longer need to whine alone.

Are these unreasonable promises? We think not. Whining has become our way of dealing with adversities--sometimes major, sometimes petty--and knowing our whines will not go unnoticed will work towards reducing the tensions produced by life's little speedbumps.

The Twelve Traditions of Whiner's Anonymous

1. Our common welfare should come first; personal recovery depends upon W.A. unity.

2. For our group purpose there is but one ultimate authority—the owners, Administrators and Moderators, Greeters and Members of this site as they may express themselves in our group conscience.

3. Our leaders are but trusted servants;but they do govern. The only requirement for W.A. membership is SR membership and a desire to share some whiny ESH.

4. This group should be autonomous except in matters affecting other whiners or W.A.as a whole.

5. Each group has but one primary purpose—to whine about things in a safe environment, have fun, blow off steam and then let it go while moving onward in recovery.

6. A W.A. group ought never endorse, finance, or lend the W.A. name to any related facility or outside enterprise,lest those who do not wish to whine or read other people's whines divert us from our primary purpose.

7. Every W.A. group ought to not to be fully self-supporting, and gratefully accept this venue given to us for the purpose of whining.

8. Whiner's Anonymous should remain forever non-professional, but our all of our whiners shall remain as special workers.

9. W.A., as such, ought never be organized; because they need to whine about the ups and downs of their lives.

10. Whiner's Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; because most people on the outside ignore whiners anyway.

11. Our public relations policy is based on whining rather than promotion; we need always maintain personal anonymity at the level of real life if that is what we choose.

12. Anonymity of screen names is optional for those who choose to use real names ever reminding us to place principles before personalities, and respect those from other fellowships. What we whine about here stays forever on the internet.

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Thank you Opi, for the new thread and for bringing Suki's cats over too....sooo cute.

I like the title too! Thanks Venus.

I started to post this on the old thread and got the "thread closed" sign, lol, so I was able to back arrow and copy it and bring it here...pheww.

PJ, I think El Bestardo Chair may end up being as famous as the Mona Lisa one day. Really, I do. You say anyone can draw/paint a chair...well, not me, pal, I can hardly draw a stick person. BUT...I could photograph El Bestardo when it was done, act as your agent and get the word out to all the great Galleries and next thing you know, you will be featured on CNN and making millions, I tell ya, millions.

OR...you could just enjoy the process and share it with all of us. Really, it's much the same thing, yes?

Bubba and I went to the bank today and moved some money into a tax saving account which means we won't owe anything more than we've already paid this year. I'd rather pay us than pay the government and we got to meet our bank manger here who was very nice and only lives about a block from us. This is the last year we can do this, Bubba turns 71 in August, but I cringed when I did our tax return estimate and figure we would actually owe money, so will take advantage of this.

Saturday is the big day, Least, I am soooo ready to go. I wish I could pack right now but I can keep my laundry up to date so it won't be a big job the day before. Tomorrow I have a very early appointment with my doctor in Toronto (if the roads are good) and Wednesday I get my home shots which puts me down for a day or two, so the more I get done ahead of time, the better. I will be late posting tomorrow, just so you know.
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Thanks for the new part Opi, and the title Suze.

I am cold today in the house. The heat is set on 70 F but I still feel cold.
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Maybe turn it up for a half an hour least honey....I am doing that right now.....warming up the whole house. I got colder as well.
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Suki - I love selfie on the ear doggie.

One of our best titles ever.
I haven't seen either of the other 'Star Is Born''s so I don't know what happens, but I have a feeling I'll need tissues.

Ann - You & Bubba did good - very wise move.
I have fingers crossed for good weather all during your trip.

PJ - El Bastardo will not get the best of you....

Least - I have the same thing here - room temp. is fine, but I'm cold. Poor circulation, I guess.

Maudcat - As I said before, they'd be fools to not accommodate a great employee. I know how hard it is to find people like you! I hope it will work out - no point in sticking with them if they are that unbending.

Big snow on it's way tomorrow. I have provisions - Bread, milk, coffee, TP & soup.
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Believe it or not Hev....this is the fourth Star is Born....
I need to see the original and the second....

Fredric March and Janet Gaynor (1937)
James Mason and Judy Garland (1954)
Kris Kristofferson and Barbra Streisand (1976)
Bradley Cooper and Lady Gaga (2018)

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I didn't know about the 1937 one....thanks, Suze.
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Well, here you all are....on a new thread ! I love the title, very clever Opi, thank you for the new part.

Ann, I hope the roads are safe for your morning appointment. Saturday will be here before you know it !

MC, If the job is making you anxious, I'd feel positive about making a change. You now have experience and places will soon be looking for green house help. Have you ever considered a greenhouse?

PJ, This chair needs to rest besides Hev's recliner ! ha ha!

Suze, I'm sorry to be late with my birthday wish, I hope it was special despite the health scare!

Chic, Stay strong girl...only a few days till Valentines is over

I'm physically and emotionally tired. Coughing has made my lower back hurt, so my fitness challenge is uncomfortable After some research I enrolled my uncle with hospice. To start with, he'll receive pain management for the acute pain in his right leg / hip, get a bathing aide for an hour twice a week and he'll begin receiving visits from volunteers with an emphasis on Veterans.

This morning I woke up from an unending dream that I was lost and my cell phone didn't work I tried over and over to find my way home, but couldn't. I asked people to help me, but they were busy. I finally sat on a bench sobbing as I couldn't call Mr. P to come get me.

Obviously a little self care is in order and I've enjoyed a quiet day.
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Oh Kim..... so many hugs. xx
In real life, you are anything but lost hey....you are completely amazing. And inspiring. And I bet you were a girl guide/scout and could help anyone find their way home....and I am glad that even in a dream Mr P was your hero.
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Oh Kim..... so many hugs. xx
In real life, you are anything but lost hey....you are completely amazing. And inspiring. And I bet you were a girl guide/scout and could help anyone find their way home....and I am glad that even in a dream Mr P was your hero.
Ironically I was a Girl Scout all the way through high school - ha ha!
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Hi, Pondy. Thanks for the reminder about the recliner. I must resume nagging MrH about finishing it.
I was a Brownie, but only a Girl Scout briefly. I don't remember why I dropped out, because I enjoyed it. Were you the Girl Scout equivalent of an Eagle Scout?
Sorry you've had such anxiety. You did a wonderful thing for your Uncle.
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Yes....sorry....something really awful happened in my life today and I am trying to be brave and I am missing things.

I agree with Hev....you are wonderful to do what you have done for your uncle.
And I was thinking about the recliner as well....how funny.

What an amazing collection of memories we are amassing. s
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Pondy, glad you got your uncle enrolled in Hospice. That will be helpful for him.

Suze, how are you doing? Sorry to hear something awful happened to you today. Hope it's getting better.

Took Billie out in the dog yard but she wouldn't pee, so took her out back and she finally did. She's just so easily distracted, she forgets to go potty.

It's raining now. And later on it's supposed to freeze. Then in a couple days, more snow.
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I will be alright honey, but it won't be better ever. Except for acceptance...that will make it alright. It was my younger sister....it was bad. I posted in another thread and I can't say it again. Suffice to say that she is pretty much dead to me now. Not like I cut her off....she did it. In such a way that the pain is greater than a death. So that is that.
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