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Whiners Anonymous ... Part 247 ~ "Ring Out The Old, Whine In the New"


The Whining Continues From Here.

https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...ackpot-25.html (Whiners Anonymous ... Part 246 ~ "Whining in memory of Olive and Jackpot.")





W.A. Preamble!

Whiners Anonymous is a fellowship of men and women who share their experience,

strength and hope with each other,

that they may solve their whining problems and help others to recover from whinerism.

The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop whineing.

There are no dues or fees for W.A. membership;

we are self-supporting through our own contributed whines.

W.A. is not allied with any sect, denomination, politics, organization, institutions,

TV, radio, or Oprah Book of the Month Club!

does not wish to engage in any controversy, yeah right!,

neither endorses nor opposes any causes.

Our primary purpose is to stop whine'n and help other whineaholics to achieve non whineity.

Whiners Anonymous Help (WAH!)

Do you whine, complain, or snivel? Are you a grumpy old fart?
Do you seek out others in taverns or internet chat rooms to whine about things?
Do people ever tell you to "like it or lump it"?
Are you asked, "What are you crying about?"
Do friends or family seem less likely to talk to you as the years go by?
Do you constantly tell other people they whine too much?

If you do any of these things, you may be in need of the WAH! 12 step program.
Whining is for tiny tots! Do you want to die a lonely old man/woman and whine about the prospect?
Stop whining now!


The WAH! 12 Step Program:


1. Admit you whine.

Just say, "I am a whiner."


2. Admit your whining is a problem.

It's not enough to know you whine--you have to realize it interferes with your life. Tell yourself, your spouse, and a friend that you have a problem with whining, that all you have ever done is whine. But don't whine to God! He already knows, all too well. God just sat back while you whined away the years. It's not His fault, after all, so don't go whining to Him with your problem.


3. Seek help to cure your whining.

Whining is but one of your many shortcomings, since you are a miserable excuse for a human being. Another shortcoming is you can't do anything for yourself, otherwise you would not whine. Go whine to somebody to help you--that's all you know how to do, remember?


4. Laugh at your whine.

Made a decision to turn your constant whining over to your sense of humor and learn to "lovingly and wholeheartedly" laugh at yourself each time you whine. Be prepared to be given the nickname "Loony Tunes," however.


5. Step out of your shoes.

Put your whine in perspective. There's a woman in Africa living in a mud hut with a grass roof and NO indoor plumbing. She lives off of $27 a year. She is totally blind and collects sticks for firewood, hoping the next stick isn't a snake. Now, what was your whine again?


6. Eat something nasty.

Eat some vegetable you hate without whining about the taste. And don't hold your nose or cover it with cheese!


7. Listen to other whiners.

Get a part job in a complaint department and listen to other peoples' whines 8 hours a day. But don't complain about your job! If you do, go back to step 3. Go a whole week listening to your wife/husband complain and just say "yes dear." If you can't, go back to step 2. Have kids and listen to them whine--that's how you sound to others. Pay back time! What goes around, comes around!


8. Make a victim list.

Make of list of all persons you thought you had harmed and hope to hell that they'd forgotten all the minuscule crap you'd blown out of proportion. Ask them if you ever whined, and then be prepared to take the return whine.


9. Beat the crap out of your parents.

After all, they raised a whiner. Yes, you started early, but it is not your fault!


10. Beware of falling off the wagon.

Resign yourself to the fact you are going to whine each time you try to stick to your guns when you know you are right. Once a whiner, always a whiner, they say. So either just admit your are wrong or go back to step 1. Cripes, you mean you really want to go back to step 1 after getting to step 10?


11. Whine to your dog.

They love you no matter how much you whine. It's called unconditional love. Unless of course they sense your foul mood. Disguise your whine by mixing the words "good dog" in every sentence. They only know so many words--those two they know. Otherwise, your dog would hate you like all the people you know.


12. Help others.

Help some other whiney-assed basstard with his whine problem. You get to whine about their whining. It's great.

so have at it!

whine, snivle, rant, bitch, and rave away!!!

W.A. Disclaimer; just be prepared for the results


12 Promises of WA

If we are painstaking about developing our whining techniques, we will be amazed at how proficient we become at expressing our dissatisfaction with people, places, and things that irk us.

1. We are going to know a new freedom of expression.

2. We will realize it's phony to pretend happiness when we just aren't feeling it.

3. We will not regret our whines nor wish to deny their validity.

4. We will comprehend the word serenity and we will know the peace of unburdening ourselves by sharing our whines at WA.

5. No matter how far down in the dumps we feel, we will see how our experience can benefit our fellow whiners.

6. That Pollyanna feeling of "la-dee-da, la-dee-da" will disappear.

7. We will set our own whines aside as we realize someone else's whine may be more deserving of our emotional support .

8. Self-centeredness will not be as prevalent, as we share and compare whining.

9. Our whole attitude and outlook upon ordinary blahs in general, and whining in particular will take on a new meaning.

10. Fear of being recognized and/or ostracized as a Chronic Whiner will leave us.

11. We will intuitively know that healthy whining is not to be stifled, but shared with others like ourselves.

12. We will suddenly realize that sharing a good whine can be very cathartic and we no longer need to whine alone.

Are these unreasonable promises? We think not. Whining has become our way of dealing with adversities--sometimes major, sometimes petty--and knowing our whines will not go unnoticed will work towards reducing the tensions produced by life's little speedbumps.

The Twelve Traditions of Whiner's Anonymous

1. Our common welfare should come first; personal recovery depends upon W.A. unity.

2. For our group purpose there is but one ultimate authority—the owners, Administrators and Moderators, Greeters and Members of this site as they may express themselves in our group conscience.

3. Our leaders are but trusted servants;but they do govern. The only requirement for W.A. membership is SR membership and a desire to share some whiny ESH.

4. This group should be autonomous except in matters affecting other whiners or W.A.as a whole.

5. Each group has but one primary purpose—to whine about things in a safe environment, have fun, blow off steam and then let it go while moving onward in recovery.

6. A W.A. group ought never endorse, finance, or lend the W.A. name to any related facility or outside enterprise,lest those who do not wish to whine or read other people's whines divert us from our primary purpose.

7. Every W.A. group ought to not to be fully self-supporting, and gratefully accept this venue given to us for the purpose of whining.

8. Whiner's Anonymous should remain forever non-professional, but our all of our whiners shall remain as special workers.

9. W.A., as such, ought never be organized; because they need to whine about the ups and downs of their lives.

10. Whiner's Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; because most people on the outside ignore whiners anyway.

11. Our public relations policy is based on whining rather than promotion; we need always maintain personal anonymity at the level of real life if that is what we choose.

12. Anonymity of screen names is optional for those who choose to use real names ever reminding us to place principles before personalities, and respect those from other fellowships. What we whine about here stays forever on the internet.

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Thanks, Opi. Maybe you can save my suggestion for a future thread. I was a little late posting it.

Least posted this a while back. Maybe you can do something with that?

Whine Thing, you make my heart sing, you make...

Whine Thing, you make my heart sing, you make everything grooovy - whine thing...
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Thanks for the new part Opi! Maybe that can be a future title.

Billie and I are staying inside today as it's quite cold out. She doesn't have a lot of thick fur, like Jack did, so she gets cold easily. No walk today, just quick potty trips and then back inside where it's warm.

I did take her for a ride when I went to the store earlier. I discovered on the way home, that she had stepped on the window button and rolled the back window down about halfway. I waited til she was away from it and rolled it up. From now on, I'll keep the back windows locked.

I am cold in the house and have to wear my robe for warmth. I don't want to turn up the heat as that will make the bill go up.

At night I stay warm under the blanket with Billie right next to me. She's my little furry heater.
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Thanks for the new thread, Opi. Whining in the new...has a nice ring to it.

Suki, I like that title too and forgot all about it.

It was too cold to walk today and pelting ice, so we went for a drive back toward deer country and saw more in another area. I just love the lakes and forests around here.
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Least, I always had to put the kiddie lock on the windows when Toby rode in the car. He loved to wave at other cars and put the window down to stick his head out.
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I hope that how the germs operate, Suki.

PJ - I'm very thankful your hand is less painful.

Ann - I watched that video of winter birds you posted on another thread. We have the same birds, but one I didn't recognize. It was black & white speckled with a yellow beak - a Starling. We have several different varieties of woodpeckers & flickers.

Pondy - It helps to go out for walks in winter. I need to do it. I look out the windows frequently, does that count?
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I love starlings, Hev. When they flock and travel they make wonderful patterns in the sky. I will see if I can find a good example.

Here's a good one. Nobody knows why they do this but they are awesome to watch and listen to. Turn on your sound...

https://video.nationalgeographic.com...c-4f7f8e650000
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Thank you, Suki!

Great title for the next one.

(If, I remember)
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good title Suki

Ann- the Starling flight is no real mystery, they do that because they are awesome struck at the practicality of seeing a person on the ground being supported by their emotional support elephant.

Lovely btw.
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For some reason, the NG video wouldn't play for me. So I googled 'starling murmuration' and watched a lovely video. Huge flock, and moving so fluidly.

The starlings here are black in the warm weather and speckled in winter.

Billie is making use of the Twilight Bark to communicate with the neighborhood dogs.
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^ Starlings' new autumn/winter feathers are white-tipped, and the tips wear off, giving them handsome all-black iridescent plumage for the breeding season
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^ Starlings' new autumn/winter feathers are white-tipped, and the tips wear off, giving them handsome all-black iridescent plumage for the breeding season
I didn't know that! I learn something new every day!
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Good morning whiny friends. Happy New Year, PJ, and Happy New Year Eve to those on this side of the planet.

Walking today, it is a quiet time, and hoping to stay awake long enough to bring in the new year tonight.

Looking forward to longer days ahead...

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Gosh this is making me feel sad and happy at the same time....these are my Melbourne NY fireworks....just filmed....if you want to see, start from 2 mins in....

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Good morning whiners! Happy New Year PJ and Happy New Year's Eve to the rest of us.

It's raining today, but grateful it's not snow.
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Very rainy NYE here and I hear for Times Square too.

Went to early Jazz class, for some reason is was extra challenging this morning! Going to gather some donations to take to the thrift store...other then that, a lazy day
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I am cold in the house and have to wear my robe for warmth. I don't want to turn up the heat as that will make the bill go up.
What is the temperature in your living area, least?

It's really important to be in a comfortably-warm home - better for our circulatory and respiratory systems, muscles and joints; better for the fabric of the house so damp doesn't build up.

Take good care of yourself.
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