dslalonde

Hi, I am new to this, but i realize i do need your help. I have a 19 year old beautiful son who has turned into somone i do not know. It has been a year now, and i cannot take much more. We have tried nice, strict, ignoring, but nothing gets thru to him. I have seen my son go from a happy, well adjusted gifted athelete to a scawny, mean, moody, alien. I need advice and guidance from parents who have been there. NO JOB< NO SCHOOL<NO relationships. He disappears for days, I worry sick...