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Old 04-01-2006, 01:36 PM
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My sister Trish

My name is Nancy and Miracle is my sister. I just would like to take a moment to thank you all for your kind words at this time in my family's life. Trish was not only my baby sister she is my best friend. I wish I could share some things with you all right now but I am just a bit whipped. In our many talks she spoke so lovingly of all you kind people and the help that she had received from you all She and I could laugh for hours about a rock we would just go back and forth until one of us would pee our pants. I am also in recovery so I know the genuine love and caring that surround us. I am not making much sense right now so please excuse me. I just can not let it sink in that I have lost my best friend of the last 46 years. Please pray for Pat and keep in your hearts He loved her dearly.He treated her with the utmost love and respect that she deserved (although she did not think so.) Please feel free to contact me I would love to hear from her dear friends My e mail is bronxbbabe******.com. Bless you all, you are in my heart, Thanks, The Girl who is the lucky one to have Miracle as my sister and best friend.
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I was told earlier "how could I miss someone and feel so touched by someone when I never even met them".....I was quiet a second as I thought how sad this person has no idea what a true relationship is..........when someone touches our heart, reaches out a caring hand(and it can be via internet!) they have a spot in our lives so much more pure and honest IMO than our f2f relationships...there are no distractions from body language, from material surroundings, from smells..from anything but a soul connection..just one heart connecting to another.....so simple..........but yet sooo powerful that our dear Trish((((Miracle))))) will never be gone...she will be in our hearts and on our minds. She leaves us with fond memories and the privilege of being able to share some of our recovery...our LIFE with her.....she's still alive in us..............we must continue forward, though sad and heartbroken reaching out to those still suffering the same kind words and thoughtful replies Trush did.....she wouldn't want any less.

I am so sorry for your pain...I wasn't as close as some of you......but I have a place in my heart for her too...she was always so loving in her replies to me....I will do my best to keep her alive by continuing to extend the same others.

((((((((((((((((Huge Hugs you all))))))))))))))))))

It will be okay.................it's okay to grieve....to be angry........sad......allow yourselves to grieve..and please.don't ever think because you didn't meet her..............your heart met her...and that's all we really leave with anyone anyways. The heart.

As Trish had in her post signature............

*Teach only LOVE*

Extend some LOVE to an addict today..share how she touched your heart.it might just touch theirs.


(((((((((((((Miracle))))))))))))) I will always remember you, thank you for coming into my life.
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((((((((Nancy))))))))) I am so very sorry for your loss.
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(((Nancy)))
Thank you for letting us meet you...for sharing...for loving Trish...my friend...

Shalom!
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She and I could laugh for hours about a rock we would just go back and forth until one of us would pee our pants.
What a beautiful relationship to have with a sister, I was tempted to say you were both lucky, but it isn't luck - it's what you built.

Take care Nancy...
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Old 04-01-2006, 01:53 PM
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Old 04-01-2006, 01:57 PM
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just called and left me a message.

Damn, how sad Such a lovely lady.


I pray for her family, to ease their pain.


Trish,

hope you're resting with the Angels
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Old 04-01-2006, 02:16 PM
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hey Nan, glad to see ya in here too, i love ya Nan... stil try'n to downsize the NY pic of Trish....Arg, ppfftt, phoey.... persevarance time... i a good alk'y/adict... perfection time. lol............... Pattee
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Old 04-01-2006, 02:32 PM
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hey Nan, we did it, i think?
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Old 04-01-2006, 02:34 PM
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Old 04-01-2006, 02:35 PM
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Thank you so much, Patrick!

Love and hugs,
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I'm sorry for your loss, I'll be sending good thoughts to all of you.
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I'm sorry for your loss and our loss.

Here is a post by Trish from November.

May her words speak to all of our hearts.


To Those I Love and
Those Who Love Me

When I am gone, release me, let me go.
I have so many things to see and do.
You mustn’t tie yourself to me with tears,
Be happy that we had so many years.

I gave you my love, you can only guess
How much you gave to me in happiness.
I thank you for the love you have shown
But now it’s time I travel on alone.
So grieve awhile for me, if grieve you must
Then let your grief be comforted by trust.

It’s only for a little while that we must part,
So bless the memories within your heart.
I won’t be far away, for life goes on.
So if you need me, call and I will come.
Though you can’t see or touch me, I’ll be near.
And if you listen with your heart you’ll hear
All of my love around you soft and dear.

And then, when you must come this way alone
I’ll greet you with a smile and "Welcome Home."

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Old 04-01-2006, 03:05 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss. Nancy I know the pain of losing a sibling - my prayers are with you.
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I am so sorry for your loss. She sounded like a very special lady. I will keep all of you in my prayers.
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So sorry for your loss...prayers for you all,
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Old 04-01-2006, 03:26 PM
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I'm so sorry. My prayers go out to you and your family.











I don't ever want my husband to have to do the same thing here.
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Old 04-01-2006, 03:34 PM
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Nancy and Patrick I just wanted to say how sorry I am for your loss. Trish was a beautiful woman. I was blessed to have known her, and to have had her share a little of her life, and herself with me.

When I came here to SR I was beat and broken. Trish and many others opened their hearts and offered me support. It was a wonderful thing and since that first day I have tried to come back here every day. I care about my online buddies and want to see how they are doing. Some people may never experience the online relationships that we have come to know here.

We are a tight bunch here at SR who truly care for one another. We have shared our triumphs and our struggles. We have a bond like no others can understand but those who have experienced it. Even though we never met, I still knew her. She has touched many lives...


Her memory will remain in my heart.

May you find comfort in your time of sorrow.
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Old 04-01-2006, 03:44 PM
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For Robert (re Trish)

Thank you so much I sent you an e mail but received an error saying could not deliver because something was blocked It was so kind of you to e mail me Trish is one of a kind in more ways than one ( I could tell you stories that would make thelma and louise blush haha } I do agree with what you said about how I am feeling I will rest easier tonight just having shared that thought with you Please keep in touch I am so grateful to know how my best friend was so loved she spoke of you all often with much love and respect Again, Thank you BLESS Nancy
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