cupowater

OK, It's 12:30am Sunday morning. I am sound asleep, and the phone rings:

Me: Hello
Her: Is J___ there?
Me: I think he is asleep. (assuming this young girl is calling for my son!)
Her: Well, would you go see if he is asleep?
Me: No. I am asleep!!!
Her: Well, this is K____ from the bar across the tracks.
Me: wait, which J_____ are you looking for?
Her: The oldest one.
Me: (getting a bit agravated) He is asleep!
Her: Well, when he wakes up, would you ask him if he is going to come visit me?
Me: Yeah! I'll tell him!
At this point I hang up and am so bewildered at this phone call. The gull of this little 21 year old girl to call our house in the middle of the night and "order" me to wake my SO so that he can come "visit her" in the bar!!!!! What the Hell was THAT all about?!?!?!?!?

Minx1969

Ugghh..flashbacks to being with my exabf..

at my house..it's 1 am..we are lying on the floor talking..phone rings:

(I hear girl's voice in background):

exabf: no I'm not coming to party..

click

phone rings again

exabf: I'm with my girlfriend I'm not coming out..

click..

no more phone calls..

I didn't say a word..he looked at me and said "you are mad?"

quack quack quack...

2dayzmuse

I can totally relate to that. My ex had been out drinking and stumbled into bed in the early A.M. The phone rings with some young chippy on the other end asking to speak to him. I said he is sleeping, she then asks to talk to him again. I don't know what possessed me to hand the phone to him and say it's for you. He was to drunk to answer it anyway. He had no concept of what was going on. I'm not quite sure what the plans were for him and chippy. I think he was supposed to meet her for an after hours party. Apparently he told her that him and I were split up. Hmmmm...that was news to me. Needless to say, that started a big rift.

Oh, I just remembered how the whole thing started. He and I went out for some drinks and then went out for dinner. We were in separate vehicles because I met him up at the lounge. After eating, we were both going home. I turned left towards home and he kept on going. He hit the tavern and had a swell time. Then the phone rings...

cupowater

Now there is MORE to add! At 5am the phone rings (same girls voice on the other end):

Me: Hello
Her: (a pause, then) Is J___ S____ there?
Me: He is asleep? Who is this?
Her: It's someone from ______ (where he works)
Me: Is this an emergency?
Her: Yes.
(little dog barking in the back ground)
SO picks up the extention:
SO: Did you get it?
Me: Yes, it's your work with an "emergency"
SO: Hello?
Her: Hi! (said sweetly)
Him: Hi! (said sweetly back)
I hang up.

This morning I asked him if he got his "work emergency" worked out.
He says he dosen't know about a work emergency. I proced to tell him word by word (and times) of both phone calls. He told me he picked up the phone at 5am but no one was there so he hung up. I told him that he had said hello to the girl. He looked agitated, and said "Oh, I know who it was" I said YEAH! K___ from the bar! I am still waiting for an explanation........

cwohio

hmmm....

Zoey

Just a comment, It seemed the bar room people thought they were family, the only family, in my case it seemed they owned my hubby, and that he had no other life, That was when they were under the influence.
No one called, he was last one standing at closing time. So often they can't dial right anyway.
Your caller must have gotten a late start if still able to dial at 5 AM.

I called a co-worker one time at 2AM, I wasn't interested in him like for sex. Just had a joke or some fool thing I didn't think would wait. His wife was upset. Didn't look good.
I felt really bad. I've been through some alcoholic insanity on my part.

That sweetly bit would bug anyone. They may not speak when sober, depending she may not remember calling.?????

Instead of banning cig, they should ban alcohol in bars and resturants etc. LOL

Sorry this happened cup, no fun. LV and HUGS

cupowater

Well, the girl is the bar tender. I know that much. She sounded sober, but you never know. She probably sleeps in the day and works at night, so I assume 5am is HER pm!!

Zoey

Disgusting anyway no doubt, HUGS

cupowater

Well, its Monday night. I had my surgery today, and he is back at the bar again tonight. Said he is going to find out what is up with the calls. Hmmm.....

StandingStrong

I am sooooo sorry. I recall being left alone after surgery's and feeling really neglected. I can't imagine how you feel right now after those phone calls. Truly, I feel for you and I'm so sorry that you have to go through this.
(((((cupowater))))

FormerDoormat

Cup:

Women are calling him at your home. I know you can't control you husband's behavior nor the sleeze's behavior at the bar, but why are you willing to live this way?

Pick-a-name

OT__Cup; hope your surgery went well. Glad that is behind you. Hope your recovery is speedy.

cwohio

hey cup - hope you heal quickly from your surgery!

long at this

oh yes the wonderful bartenders at 3 a.m. I would always get "they just called cause I didn't pay my bar tab."Funny how he always paid the male bartenders. Hope your are recovering from your surgery. I had surgery about a year ago,I had a 225 pound growth removed and haven't had a call at 3 a.m. since then. OK my bad. Seriously hugs to you.

cupowater

Former, Its a long story!

Pick and CW, Thank you!

Longat this, that is funny about the growth!

cwohio

call me if you need anything or a ride somewhere!

cupowater

Thanks Chris!