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Old 04-03-2006, 01:10 PM
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She hit bottom

M has not called in a long time and today I got a call but didn't check the caller ID 1st. M told me she is checking into rehab and her Mother was taking her. Her Mother actually showed up at her place while she was on the phone with me and I talked to her. I wasn't rattled in the least bit but was supportive of her decision. I told her she was doing the right thing and she could beat this if she really wanted and that her kids miss her terrible and need her in their lives. This will be her third time at a 28 day rehab. The first one she left after 3 days of detox, and was drinking within a week. The second time she did the whole 28 days but was drinking again within two weeks.<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p>

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Old 04-03-2006, 01:15 PM
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Well I wish her luck also Jazz! Maybe this time it will work for her.
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See how far you have come. Only 2 months ago when John called me
for the first time in months I remember how you responded. You said you
didn't think you could handle talking to M now or maybe ever.....You did
good my friend, real good.
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Old 04-03-2006, 01:30 PM
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Many times "3" is considered to be the lucky charm! For her sake, let's hope so!

'Ya done good Jazz! You handled it well!
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Old 04-03-2006, 01:59 PM
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Sending prayers that now can be her time...
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Old 04-03-2006, 02:01 PM
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It does sound like you handled it great - we'll all keep fingers crossed for her.
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Oh, Jazz, I wish her luck too.
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Old 04-03-2006, 03:06 PM
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((((Jazz))))

You rock.

I want to be like you when I (finally) grow up.

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((jazz)) way to go buddy! i will say a prayer that this is THE time for her.
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jazz, hope the third time's a charm for her and for the kids, too. i have no idea how i'd handle that call - sounds like you did real good.
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Old 04-03-2006, 04:34 PM
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That's great for her Jazz. I hope it works out this time and that she gives it a good, honest try. You do sound like you handled it in the best way possible. Hats off to you friend .
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Old 04-03-2006, 04:47 PM
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Yo Jazz, I'm glad she's going into rehab. I'll be praying for her.

I think my 'puter is acting up cuz I can't see the most important part of your post. That is how are _you_ feeling? How's that codie heart of yours? I know mine would be a mess.

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I can't see the most important part of your post. That is how are _you_ feeling?
I'm fine thanks Mike. I'm amazingly un effected actually. Of course I left out a few details about the events leading up to her latest bottom and her motivation to check into rehab... again. She felt inclined to inform me of the latest beating she took from her abusive BF that she now has up on charges. There was a major attempt to throw lots of drama in there. But I just cut her right off and changed the subject to recovery and her kids. I was able to take a short nap after the call and that would not have been possible a few months ago. I wish her no ill will and nothing but the best for her future. I truly do hope she can get sober and stay sober for herself and her kids.

I think I'm past the resentment stage... I think.
We'll see how I feel next time I make a payment on the equity line of credit
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Way cool Jazz, if you have any left over serenity pills feel free to ship 'em UPS to Las Vegas. *lol*

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Old 04-03-2006, 05:29 PM
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Serenity pills *sniker*....

It's more like experience pills. She only called me to grease the skids for a possible make up, (I know that). She's out of money, her BF supported her and kept the liquor cabinet stocked.... but last night he almost killed her. She woke up in the hospital today with no recollection of what happened. The neighbors called the police and that's all she knows. When she gets out of rehab she'll be needing another man to lean on, sad but true. She has her entire life to rebuild ahead of her and she won’t have me to lean on that's for sure. She will have one tough road to hoe and I wish her luck b/c like I said, she'll need it.

There's just no tellin how far down a persons bottom can be. It's beyond the realm of what most folks can even conceive of.
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Jazz............good news all around! Hope this time is THE time for her!
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Old 04-03-2006, 05:35 PM
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Jeesh Jazz. Glad to hear that you won't be there to "pick up those pieces." Boy-- would that be a huge step back into the vortex?????
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I'd like some serenity pills. Do you need a prescription? Are they addicting? LOL

Seriously, though, I do hope this is it and the kids will get their mom back.

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