The Five Freedoms

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Old 03-24-2006, 10:28 AM
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The Five Freedoms

by Virginia Satir

To see and hear what is here,
instead of what should be, was or will be.

To say what one feels and thinks,
instead of what one should.

To feel what one feels,
instead of what one ought.

To ask for what one wants,
instead of always waiting for permission.

To take risks in one's own behalf,
instead of choosing to be only 'secure'
and not rocking the boat.

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Old 03-24-2006, 11:04 AM
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Wow, I usually say what I think I should, I try to feel like I think I ought to feel, I rarely ask for what I want, and if I do, I apologize for it.

How backwards is that?
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Old 03-24-2006, 11:30 AM
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Originally Posted by TexasGirl
Wow, I usually say what I think I should, I try to feel like I think I ought to feel, I rarely ask for what I want, and if I do, I apologize for it.

How backwards is that?
So what are you going to do about it?
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Old 03-24-2006, 01:39 PM
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RP.....I really like that, Thank you much.

TG... me too ,always trying to do someone elses shoulds and aughts, and then all my own too, kinda a double load. Smile Hope you fix you. I still slip.

denny... did you fix you, or were you always free of shoulds and wants?? I do think some are born free.
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Old 03-24-2006, 01:45 PM
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Originally Posted by Clancy46
denny... did you fix you, or were you always free of shoulds and wants?? I do think some are born free.
i'm a fixer-upper for sure. i suffer more from the shoulds not so much from the wants. i come from a very strict religious upbringing. for a long time i thought the 12 steps were the 12 commandments.
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