jen928

wow....well, i guess everything has finally hit me. i'm not having a good day. i'm overwhelmed, scared, sad, crying, emotionally drained. it's just too much to handle right now for me. the guardianship, my mom's health, lawyers, possible court time, her going to the hospital.
so many what if's in my head it's driving me crazy.

Jazzman

All you can deal with is what you know right now. She wants help, next week is a chance to get it for her. That's a good thing Jen. One day at a time.

Cynay

Dont drive yourself crazy that way hon... put the crystal ball away and just deal with one thing at a time....

It is scarry, but you will come through this. I will keep you in my prayers

jen928

It's so hard not to. I'm trying....

cwohio

((jen)) - you need to take a small break and get a short dose of quiet time if you can to settle your spinning thoughts. swirling head syndrome is not a nice place to be. the what ifs are just that - not real.

denny57

Always remember, you're doing the best you can Jen. On my worst days, I do try to find a 30 minute chunk of time when I just sit with a cup of tea and calm myself down. You are going to have these days, especially at the beginning because it is all so new and you've got so much new information and choices flying at you.

Be kind to yourself. ((()))

pmaslan

Just know I hear you and have you in my prayers.....
hang in there tomorrow is another day.....

FormerDoormat

Sending prayers for you and your mom. Be gentle on yourself.