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My Cape Is at The Cleaners
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Join Date: Nov 2004
Location: Metropolis
Posts: 1,117
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Dad seems to be refusing to let go, all he wants to do is go home.
Slowly this is all happening and I pray for mercy for him.
Days have gone by and still no phone call or contact from my Wife regarding my Father.
I was hoping that even a call with some sort of message, nothing.
How can one push family aside like this?
How cold can one be?
Has the alcohol changed this woman that much?
Has the warm and loving person I married vanish for good?
With everything I have learned, I can not accept this, nor will this be forgiven.
Slowly this is all happening and I pray for mercy for him.
Days have gone by and still no phone call or contact from my Wife regarding my Father.
I was hoping that even a call with some sort of message, nothing.
How can one push family aside like this?
How cold can one be?
Has the alcohol changed this woman that much?
Has the warm and loving person I married vanish for good?
With everything I have learned, I can not accept this, nor will this be forgiven.
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Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: Lost in NC
Posts: 416
I'm so sorry
My Grandmother went slowly also, but she always put a good face on things. One thing she said as she was nearing the end still brings a smile to my face. She was ready to go and not afraid...she would say " The good lord wont take me, and the devil wont have me!" I miss her...
You know the answer about your wife, the alcohol has changed her...
You helped me to realize this about my spouse.
Maybe they will wake up one day.
Your Friend in North Carolina
You know the answer about your wife, the alcohol has changed her...
You helped me to realize this about my spouse.
Maybe they will wake up one day.
Your Friend in North Carolina
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Join Date: Apr 2005
Location: Phoenix, AZ
Posts: 3,812
Im sorry about your father, Mine went very slowly too and it was really hard.
Please stop looking to your wife to behave normally, it will only drive you more crazy... she is an A and will never be able to be normal until she decides she has had enough and gets help.
Please stop looking to your wife to behave normally, it will only drive you more crazy... she is an A and will never be able to be normal until she decides she has had enough and gets help.
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Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: Recoveryville, USA
Posts: 1,297
Seeking her comfort is like going to the hardware store to buy bread.
They dont sell it there, so dont go there. Go to those who do offer comfort...us on SR...friends...family.
"She" doesnt exsist...just a shell of her former self does.
They dont sell it there, so dont go there. Go to those who do offer comfort...us on SR...friends...family.
"She" doesnt exsist...just a shell of her former self does.
My Cape Is at The Cleaners
Thread Starter
Join Date: Nov 2004
Location: Metropolis
Posts: 1,117
Well people I completely broke down this morning, I’m sad to say.
I lost all of it and can not stop crying, I’m not too proud to say.
The wife, the son and my Dad.
I’m not even sure if I can get my butt to work.
I thought this emotion would be done, but no.
I lost all of it and can not stop crying, I’m not too proud to say.
The wife, the son and my Dad.
I’m not even sure if I can get my butt to work.
I thought this emotion would be done, but no.
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Join Date: Jul 2004
Location: Litterbox City
Posts: 5,691
((((mr. c)))) - you can only hold it in for so long - i think you need to cry - i know i did and still do. you've got a lot of emotional stuff going on right now. what FOB says is absolutely on the mark!
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