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Old 06-19-2005, 09:32 PM
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My friend is leaving for a few months and Im sad. When we talked earlier, I just burst into tears. I'm gonna miss him so much but I feel bad because I started crying on the phone with him.

Crying is not a good way to end things.....

Why couldn't I just be strong and not cry? I care about him and I just want to be supportive.
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Old 06-19-2005, 09:40 PM
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It isn't bad that you cried. Crying is a natural reaction to having a strong emotion. What you choose to do from this point forward will decide whether or not you handled the situation well.

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Old 06-20-2005, 03:45 AM
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((((((Angelhugs))))))))) there is no shame in crying sweetheart its natural your oviously going to misss your friend a great deal and im sure he realises that ,on the bright side its just for a few months and you can always post on here when your feeling sad .....................love Lulu xxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Old 06-20-2005, 03:55 AM
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Was I unsupportive by crying while on the phone talking to him? I just don't want him to leave feeling bad thinking that I'm back here all upset and crying.

He didn't really show any emotion on the phone. He knew I was upset but he hung up and went the bed.
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Old 06-20-2005, 07:03 AM
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When you are sad and miss him, you cam come and be here with us!
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Old 06-20-2005, 07:11 AM
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Awww, thanks so much!
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Old 06-20-2005, 08:49 AM
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I think, it's nice you have a friend you care so much for. It's nice to not be numbed by something and be a caring person today.

Thanks for sharing


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