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Really angry need to vent
Oh he must be insane. So, he is going to jail tomorow and I had committed to taking him and dropping him off. He calls me to confirm tonight. Sure, give me directions to where you are staying and I will pick you up I say...he is staying with another woman and will I talk to her and get directions? NO, I will not, you can get them and give them to me..."But I want you to meet her, shes really nice and BLAH BLAH...NO- I DO NOT WANT TO MEET HER, and dont really even wanna see you, but will take you to jail, so get directions and give them to me, or get her to take you. He says I should come in and talk to her bc she so great and has no friends and doesnt understand why I broke up with him. Oh, yeah thats REALLY surprising bc I am sure you didnt tell her any of the stuff I endured while with you, you pig. Anyways, I told him since she was so fantastic and I was so stupid for breaking up with him, she could take him to jail and I hung up.
Needed to vent,,,,sorry.
Needed to vent,,,,sorry.
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GOOD FOR YOU! I can't believe he even was asking you to take him instead of her. OH MY GOSH, how inconsiderate of him to be talking about her like that to you. I sometimes think our addicts have GOT to be brain damaged to behave in these ways. No disrespect, but who in their right mind would go on and on and on about their new girlfriend. Oh, I guess he wasn't in his right mind.
VERY PROUD OF YOU - that took some guts! Take care.
VERY PROUD OF YOU - that took some guts! Take care.
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It sounds to me as if he is trying to say "See what I have now." Good for you that you did not go for it. Stay true to yourself. He is trying to keep you on the hook. You will be forever the one that got away not vice versa.
Big hugs
Big hugs
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Yesssssss!!!! (in Napolean Dynamite voice)
The whole time I'm reading this I'm thinking "have ms perfect take you to jail"
And she can't figure out why you broke up with him, he's calling his ex to pick him up from current GF's house to take him to jail? WHAT??????????
You did good real good.
Mindi
The whole time I'm reading this I'm thinking "have ms perfect take you to jail"
And she can't figure out why you broke up with him, he's calling his ex to pick him up from current GF's house to take him to jail? WHAT??????????
You did good real good.
Mindi
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is she a girlfriend or just someone who took him in? either way,i have to agree with wraybear in that they have to be brain-damaged to say and do some of the crap they come up with. and this was sheer crap..................
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Originally Posted by elizabeth1979
Anyways, I told him since she was so fantastic and I was so stupid for breaking up with him, she could take him to jail and I hung up.
I'm very proud of you!!!
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Update...I just got back into town...I had a flight Monday morning to Chicago on business. When I returned to work this am, I had a voice mail from her...asking if she could get together with me, bc she really wants me to undertsand how much he "needs" me and I shouldnt be so quick to turn him out. BLAH BLAH BLAH. I am not calling her back and this man is certianly brain damaged...thanks for everyones responses...it really felt good to read them this am!!
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Good job!!!
elizabeth...
I am usually on the naranon boards, I came across your post and had to reply.
Good for you!!! What he's doing is only another way of manipulating you and you did a good job of NIPPING that one in the BUTT!!!
Take care of you
Roxy
I am usually on the naranon boards, I came across your post and had to reply.
Good for you!!! What he's doing is only another way of manipulating you and you did a good job of NIPPING that one in the BUTT!!!
Take care of you
Roxy
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Originally Posted by elizabeth1979
When I returned to work this am, I had a voice mail from her...asking if she could get together with me, bc she really wants me to undertsand how much he "needs" me and I shouldnt be so quick to turn him out. BLAH BLAH BLAH. I am not calling her back and this man is certianly brain damaged...thanks for everyones responses...it really felt good to read them this am!!
Stay away from the two of them..
good luck to you.
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Doesn't it make you wonder who's telling the truth. He says she's the one and she's saying not to turn your back on him. Weird stuff.
Stay on track. You're doing wonderfully.
Stay on track. You're doing wonderfully.
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