Dee at Mt Bully

Been missing you all--just thought I'd bring you up to date--
my AH filed for a divorce (wow hard to type those letters without singing
it) it was easier for him to leave then to admit he is an A and work at
recovery. He did admit that ha was verbally abusive and picked fights
with people in bars or at neighbors bar-b-que but--he's not an A he just
has a problem sometimes. His words. So any way I'm off to the land of the old
and single. I think I'm OK though--we have been in our seperate houses
on our property for a few months and it's really pretty peaceful--so
now we are going to list the property and I'll be off looking for my own
place. Having this sight to go to and all of your support is a real blessing--
I need the family since I'm loosing some family and friends in the big D--
it always goes that way. Thanks to all--Dee
PS if I'm not here 'm at [email protected]--im me

minnie

(((DEE)))

I'd like to say that I'm sorry to hear this. But I'm not! I know how hard it has been for you and I really believe that this is the new start you need. I know you know that too.

You know we're all here for you. Can't wait to hear all about your new place.

Thinking of you

Love

Minnie
xxx

fancy

((Dee)) better to be old and single then living in hell on earth!! If I was closer I would come help you find a place. I would even help you move but, I guess you will have to go with out me.

Good luck with everything and God Bless
Fancy

Debbie

Dee, best of luck with the next chapter of your life. You sound quite positive and you sound like you are taking care of you! Way to go.

Take care.
Debbie

chrisea

the old and single is a better way, I'm sorry to hear this, but you will be the one who will be better off.... He's just taking the problems with him. Jmho, but usually it's the woman who files, at least most of the divorces I've seen. (including my 2) It must have been the not wanting to work on anything that was the push..... It might be hard at first, but you'll figure it out, take care

rivercitybelle

(((dee)))

wraybear

Dee, hugs to you!! Sounds like you are doing well with his decision too. Onward and upward!!!!!

Take care of yourself.

TinyVoice

(((DEE)))))

i'm in the old and single club too. There are many many wonderful members!!

Dee at Mt Bully

Sounds like I'm fortunate to be part of a very nice group--thank you all--I do
think he took the easy road--to him divorce was easier than working on himself--
I got one more room painted 2 more and this house goes on the market. I wish
I could have a big party and invite you all over when I get moved. Would'nt that be a
gab fest.LOL--I hope I never take SR for granted because it really is a family of help.
Love and smiles--Dee

osier59

Dee,
I'm another one who has found peace and serenity in my OWN house and my OWN life. It was hard at first being single, but it's great.

Good luck welcome to the club

Barb

FormerDoormat

Dee:

I think this is the beginning of the best years of your life. Go forth and be happy. I'm here if you need me.

queenofthehwy

Dee

Someone here has the signature that says "better to have loved and lost then live with a physco the rest of your life" Amen sister! Good luck with selling your house and finding a new place. Are you in NoCal or SoCal????

pmaslan

Dee....
I wish you all the luck in the world...you are the lucky one you know. You have the rest of your life to be happy. He will have the rest of his life to be miserable, you just don't have to see it anymore. Hugs to you.
Patty

Dreamsdeferred

Dee...I just want to say how it truly pains me to hear this. I just sent a small prayer to my Higher Power that you will find the strength to get through this and the peace we all are in search for.

Dreams