Something clicked.....
Something clicked.....
My AH's aunt is in the hospital so he went to visit. He called me when he was done to see if I was on my way home yet. I got home and he didn't show up until 3 hours later. ( don't get me wrong I loved the time alone).
I had such self control and didn't bother to call him, until he pulled up in the driveway (if I only would have waited another 2 minutes). Of course it was sooo hard I always think oh he got another DUI or something. Anyway he just said he went a lot of places whatever that means. I didn't fight with him or anything just went upstairs and got on the computer.
So a little while later, he comes up and says "so nothing yet?" Okay I have no idea what that meant. I just said "what do you mean?" apparently that was not what he wanted to hear. He says "well if you don't know I guess it's not that important to you" I didn't talk to him the rest of the night he slammed things around downstairs and then went to bed.
Well this morning, I realized he wanted me to fight with him so he would not feel so guilty about being gone who knows where drinking. He invited me to his fight and I didn't accept his invitation much to his dismay!!!!
I am so glad I can see things a bit clearer now and not play his games with him.
Mindi
I had such self control and didn't bother to call him, until he pulled up in the driveway (if I only would have waited another 2 minutes). Of course it was sooo hard I always think oh he got another DUI or something. Anyway he just said he went a lot of places whatever that means. I didn't fight with him or anything just went upstairs and got on the computer.
So a little while later, he comes up and says "so nothing yet?" Okay I have no idea what that meant. I just said "what do you mean?" apparently that was not what he wanted to hear. He says "well if you don't know I guess it's not that important to you" I didn't talk to him the rest of the night he slammed things around downstairs and then went to bed.
Well this morning, I realized he wanted me to fight with him so he would not feel so guilty about being gone who knows where drinking. He invited me to his fight and I didn't accept his invitation much to his dismay!!!!
I am so glad I can see things a bit clearer now and not play his games with him.
Mindi
yea mindi - i wish it was that easy for me. i don't say anything. but when he wants me to pick - the last time i physically left the house for about 2-3 hours. it does take the wind out of their sails!
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