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Old 10-16-2020, 04:20 AM
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I am here.

Day one, for the umpteenth time. Been lurking on this forum for a year. Finally time to join and make a plan.
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Old 10-16-2020, 04:23 AM
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Nice job. So what's the plan?
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Old 10-16-2020, 04:27 AM
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Welcome! It's the best place to be if you want to get sober xx
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Old 10-16-2020, 04:55 AM
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Welcome! Today is day 2 for me. Had a panic attack on Wednesday, flipped out and drank. But I'm back here to try again because it's what we do -- we keep trying.

Glad to have you with us on this journey.
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Old 10-16-2020, 04:58 AM
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Originally Posted by Erica375 View Post
Welcome! Today is day 2 for me. Had a panic attack on Wednesday, flipped out and drank. But I'm back here to try again because it's what we do -- we keep trying.

Glad to have you with us on this journey.
EXACTLY THIS xxx
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Old 10-16-2020, 05:05 AM
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Old 10-16-2020, 05:07 AM
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That making a plan part will be the key. You got this.
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Old 10-16-2020, 05:42 AM
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Welcome aboard! I stopped drinking 9 months ago and would not trade where I am now for anything. The key for me was staying connected to the way I felt on day 1. Coming here daily has been a huge part of that. Alcoholism will try to convince you that life is never going to be as good without booze...it's a lie. Sober time equals clarity so start stacking up those days.

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Old 10-16-2020, 06:37 AM
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Old 10-16-2020, 07:01 AM
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You can do this! Im a "getting sober for the umpteenth time" person as well. Having a plan of action is keeping me sober. Stay close. Post often.
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Old 10-16-2020, 08:18 AM
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Welcome luvchunk! I won’t pester you with asking about your plan, but, if you don’t have one, this is a great place to be. Stick close to the forum. Reading and posting as you like.
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Old 10-16-2020, 09:07 AM
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Originally Posted by luvchunk View Post
Day one, for the umpteenth time. Been lurking on this forum for a year. Finally time to join and make a plan.
Hi there!


Plans are great - they're just super easy to break. How about if you just QUIT? You know? Walk out of your house every day as a non-drinker...

Best,
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Old 10-16-2020, 09:56 AM
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Hi luv - this can be the time you do it! We are all with you.
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Old 10-16-2020, 03:51 PM
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Welcome to the family. I hope you find as much support here as I have.
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Old 10-16-2020, 04:58 PM
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Welcome, and I do hope you sit down and make a plan for yourself that will work for you. It can help you to get through the tough moments.
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Old 10-16-2020, 04:59 PM
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My lawyer gave me my plan.

Go to 90 meetings in 90 days.

At that point i was 41 years old. I not only had a full time job but was in the middle of a project that the company was spending lots of money and resources on. I was seeing a new woman. I was active with my running and weight training. Just where was I finding time for this? He can't be serious i thought.

So I kept an open mind. I managed to average like 5 point something, almost 6 meetings a week. Amazing how much time frees up when you're not drinking.

I got a sponsor and worked the steps. Its not for everybody but it is A WAY. Its worked for millions.
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Old 10-16-2020, 05:37 PM
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Welcome to SR, luvchunk. This is the place where I got sober for good. There are a lot of people rooting for you, and I know you can do this! Wishing you all the best on your sober journey.
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Old 10-16-2020, 08:20 PM
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Hey. How's it going this evening? Hope you're still hanging in there. Keep us updated.
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Old 10-16-2020, 10:09 PM
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The first few days are the hardest but it gets easier gradually, day by day.
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