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Old 10-12-2020, 05:10 AM
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What are you thankful for?

Today is Thanksgiving for me and 65 days sober. I am thankful for no longer:
-waking up and trying to find bottles I hid to have a morning drink
-counting the hours till the liquor store opens
-praying the "tap" feature works at the liquor store cause my hands are too shaky to put in my pin
-wait anxiously for my husband to leave for work so I can have a drink to recover
-pray no one finds my "stash"
-having my kids leave because I'm drunk
-wonder when I fell to get those bruises
-lose days and weeks
-pray the hole I'm in would just swallow me up
-think that I'm the only one who suffers this private HELL.

Thank you to SR. You continue to keep me grounded. What are you thankful for?
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Old 10-12-2020, 07:31 AM
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I am thankful for my family being safe and healthy. We were able to share our Thanksgiving with them, in a different way than usual, but most beautiful.
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Old 10-12-2020, 07:59 AM
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"What are you thankful for?"

Pumpkin flavored coffee creamer.

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Old 10-12-2020, 08:23 AM
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Here!

Sleep, coffee and the seasons changing.

People sticking with me, despite the fact that I have made no effort at times.
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Old 10-12-2020, 08:26 AM
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Grateful to do the things I don't want to do, in order to become the person I am meant to be.
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Old 10-12-2020, 08:39 AM
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That there's already a whole "Gratitude List" section in the Newcomer's Area?

https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/gratitude-list/
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Old 10-12-2020, 01:03 PM
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And tonight......... Chocolate!!
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Old 10-12-2020, 05:53 PM
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I feel that so much. I'm thankful I don't have to hide anymore. I'm thankful to have loved ones who support my sobriety, even if they can't understand my addiction.

And I'm thankful for the small things, like walks on crisp fall days, sending funny memes to brighten a friend's day, and binge-watching Netflix with my husband.
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Old 10-12-2020, 10:37 PM
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Congrats on your sober time puzzle

I am grateful for warm socks, open windows, my furkids, and my family/friends.
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Old 10-12-2020, 10:53 PM
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What I go to bed and wake up being grateful for is Billie, my little dog, and Lily, my cat, snuggling with me at bedtime. I am grateful for the feeling of peace and contentment being sober gives me. And a lot of that is my critters' devotion to me. I am so blessed to have these critters to love and care for. It reminds me of having little kids in the house. Able to do quite a bit for themselves, but still utterly devoted to mom.
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Old 10-13-2020, 01:23 AM
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Waking up sober.
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Old 10-13-2020, 05:06 AM
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So much of what all of you said I am also thankful for. I've tried to get into a habit of giving thanks each morning. Even if it's just the gift of waking up and having an opportunity to do your best. There is so much I'm thankful for and not drinking makes all of those things more visible. It's not that I have more to be thankful for, it's that my mind isn't so clouded and poisoned that I can see all that I have.
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Old 10-13-2020, 05:41 AM
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I have so much to be grateful for these days. Today I'm grateful that I can find joy in things besides alcohol. A good hearty meal makes my day
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Every day I easily could not be here right now.
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Old 10-13-2020, 02:48 PM
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Originally Posted by Andante View Post
That there's already a whole "Gratitude List" section in the Newcomer's Area?

https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/gratitude-list/
There’s always room for more thankfulness & gratitude .
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Old 10-13-2020, 03:58 PM
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Old 10-13-2020, 06:46 PM
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Originally Posted by C0ntr0ls View Post
Waking up sober.
I am also grateful for this. And it never gets old either.
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