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Old 09-20-2020, 07:26 PM
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Just joined and wanted to say hello. I’ve been following the fourm for a week or so and I find it interesting. I stopped drinking 36 days ago. For me it’s not that hard to stop for short periods. But I always go back.
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Hello, Doitnow. Welcome!
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Old 09-20-2020, 08:01 PM
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Yeah I’ve been doing that the last year. Actually it sucks worse than either quitting or just to keep drinking.

Sober is the only way to go. Because the kindling, withdrawals or booze will ultimately kill you. It gets worse and worse.

DT’s could kill you the next time you quit.
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Welcome to the family DIN. Congrats on 5 weeks sober!

You don't have to 'always go back'. You can quit drinking for good and improve your life.
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Yeah, once I stop,after a few days, it's like I flip a switch. Stop drinking, start eating right, exercising, with little effort. Can do this for years even, until I take that first drink, which never ends there. I have been so fortunate that my health bounces back but I had these horrendous stomach pains that I have never experienced before and it is surely a wakeup call. I cannot ever have that one drink again.
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It's good you know that. Welcome Doitnow.

It's the first drink for me too. Nine months now and it is so much better.
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Old 09-20-2020, 08:56 PM
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Really nice work on 36 days. Keep that positive effort going.
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Old 09-20-2020, 11:59 PM
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I can relate. I usually can stop drinking for a few weeks. I enjoy being sober. Invariably, after 2 or 3 weeks i crack. Boredom/loneliness or stress/anxiety overwhelm me.

My sober life is totally empty. Alcohol at least lets me escape for a while, however, it's never worth the money I waste, the blackouts, nor the withdrawal symptoms.

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Old 09-21-2020, 05:58 PM
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Welcome to SR, Doitnow! I'm glad you found us here.
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congrats on the milestone. I can't wait to hit day 36. Today is the beginning of day 2 for me. I did not sleepless night. I can't wait of r restful sleep to return. Be strong.

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Welcome Doctor! Congratulations on 36 days.
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Old 09-23-2020, 09:28 AM
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Originally Posted by cimbac View Post
Yeah, once I stop,after a few days, it's like I flip a switch. Stop drinking, start eating right, exercising, with little effort. Can do this for years even, until I take that first drink, which never ends there. I have been so fortunate that my health bounces back but I had these horrendous stomach pains that I have never experienced before and it is surely a wakeup call. I cannot ever have that one drink again.
For some reason, us alcoholics fall into certain traps. I used to "dry up" for a few days or a couple of weeks then tell myself one of the following:

1) I should "reward" myself for not drinking by -- drinking.
2) I "earned" a drink.
3) That person just angered me so I "need" a drink.

Translation? Real life is happening so I need a place to hide.

Oh ... welcome to the forum.
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Old 09-23-2020, 09:30 AM
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Hey Doitnow...welcome. I am in the same boat as you....good sober stretches but I always go back. Not this time though
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Old 09-23-2020, 07:28 PM
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Hey Doitnow...welcome. I am in the same boat as you....good sober stretches but I always go back. Not this time though
Gabe, how long have you been sober this time, and what is it that seems to send you back?
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Old 09-23-2020, 07:54 PM
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congrats on the milestone. I can't wait to hit day 36. Today is the beginning of day 2 for me. I did not sleepless night. I can't wait of r restful sleep to return. Be strong.
Travelbug, in a few days you will probably want to do nothing but sleep. Just the body trying to repair itself I would guess. You can do this. Just focus on what you want, like that good nights sleep and don't focus on what was behind you.
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Old 09-23-2020, 09:19 PM
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Hello and welcome! Lots of support here. I too can get sober pretty easily (usually because I’m so sick from a binge and physically can’t drink for a while) then I always go back. Back to the same results only now they are getting worse every time. But not now- staying sober is way better!! And easier if you think about the alternative consequences. Stick around, it’s so much better staying on this side. 😊
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