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Old 01-28-2020, 12:21 PM
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Through day 6, excepted the part time role at work i think will give me a better work life balance and give me space to work myself out. emotions still up and down.
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Old 01-28-2020, 12:30 PM
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Good for you Tink. That emotional roller coaster seems very typical of us newly sober folks. Hard to deal with some days, that's for sure. But I find that the highs and lows are far more brief if I am not planning on drinking to self-medicate those. I think our minds and our bodies both prefer equilibrium.
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Great going on six days, that's awesome. Keep it up, it only gets better.
And the new job sounds good, too. I hope it works out great for you.
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congrats on day 6 and the part time work. Are you thinking about going to AA still?

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Congrats on day 6!
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6 days & new work schedule sound great.
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congrats on day 6 and the part time work. Are you thinking about going to AA still?

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Yes i downloaded the aa app and have been reading that, and just trying to build up to going to a meeting, thought of going to shop is causing me anxiety at moment, silly i know but i just don't want to do anything to risk me going into another meltdown
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Well done on day 6 Tink
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Tink, I think you've made a good choice to work part-time and to focus on your recovery. Good job on Day 6.
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Old 01-28-2020, 06:29 PM
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Through day 6, excepted the part time role at work i think will give me a better work life balance and give me space to work myself out. emotions still up and down.
Excellent stuff. As a pretty smart guy around here likes to say "chop wood, carry water."

The emotions thing is very natural - it's actually an initial sign of healing and not something to be terribly alarmed by. Practice kind of just observing your feelings - detaching from them just a bit. Watch and think about where they come from and where they go. And by God make sure you aren't too hard on yourself. Give yourself a break. You are doing the right thing.

In the meantime, stay sober. That's it. That's all you have to do right now. The days stack up in a hurry. Soon it'll be weeks, then months. Your body chemistry will even out a bit and you'll find energy to do other things. But for now it's simply a great day to not drink.

(Diving into your sobriety and making it a big big priority in terms of learning and what influences you decide to let around you is a very good idea by the way...)

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