Birthday Wishes
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Birthday Wishes
My birthday was yesterday. Usually a hard day for me because what little Family I have makes it a point to remind me that I am the bane to their existence. This year I don’t care.
Instead, I decided to celebrate my birthday by making it a point to share as much kindness as possible to all living creatures. I was extra nice to my kitties giving them extra treats even my dads nasty cat. I smiled and complemented strangers as I went about my day. I gave the lady who cut my hair a generous tip. And went out of my way to make a really good lunch and breakfast for my husband who forgot it was my birthday.
I’m okay with that and it was the best birthday I have ever had. I’d say I spoiled my baby but I don’t think I can spoil her anymore than I already do.
Part of why I’m sharing this is that the The whole holiday season besides just my birthday has always been a particularly hard time of the year for me. I assume that there are several other sober recovery members that may feel the same way as well. This year I challenge you good folks to spread holiday cheer by being selfless. Donate your time to helping those less fortunate. Pay for someone’s coffee behind you in line or pay for someone’s breakfast at McDonalds. One year around Christmas time I saw an elderly person in line behind me at the grocery store with what looked like a holiday dinner for one. So, I bought a gift card that I figured would cover their meal and gave it to the cashier and explained I wanted it used for the customer behind me.
For me, helping others helps me get through these hard times during the holidays. Give it a shot, it can’t hurt right?
Happy holidays to my SR family! let’s make it great for everyone we come across in our path.
Instead, I decided to celebrate my birthday by making it a point to share as much kindness as possible to all living creatures. I was extra nice to my kitties giving them extra treats even my dads nasty cat. I smiled and complemented strangers as I went about my day. I gave the lady who cut my hair a generous tip. And went out of my way to make a really good lunch and breakfast for my husband who forgot it was my birthday.
I’m okay with that and it was the best birthday I have ever had. I’d say I spoiled my baby but I don’t think I can spoil her anymore than I already do.
Part of why I’m sharing this is that the The whole holiday season besides just my birthday has always been a particularly hard time of the year for me. I assume that there are several other sober recovery members that may feel the same way as well. This year I challenge you good folks to spread holiday cheer by being selfless. Donate your time to helping those less fortunate. Pay for someone’s coffee behind you in line or pay for someone’s breakfast at McDonalds. One year around Christmas time I saw an elderly person in line behind me at the grocery store with what looked like a holiday dinner for one. So, I bought a gift card that I figured would cover their meal and gave it to the cashier and explained I wanted it used for the customer behind me.
For me, helping others helps me get through these hard times during the holidays. Give it a shot, it can’t hurt right?
Happy holidays to my SR family! let’s make it great for everyone we come across in our path.
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PS. Getting through the holidays alone can be really tough, but I've found it does get easier as time passes. I still miss the family get togethers, but it doesn't bother me as much as it used to. I think it has to do with acceptance, living in the now and moving on. John
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Originally Posted by sugarbear1 
Happy Birthday!!! 
You've helped me so much by being on here, Thank You!
You've helped me so much by being on here, Thank You!
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Originally Posted by newhope01
My birthday was yesterday. Usually a hard day for me because what little Family I have makes it a point to remind me that I am the bane to their existence. This year I don’t care.
Instead, I decided to celebrate my birthday by making it a point to share as much kindness as possible to all living creatures. I was extra nice to my kitties giving them extra treats even my dads nasty cat. I smiled and complemented strangers as I went about my day. I gave the lady who cut my hair a generous tip. And went out of my way to make a really good lunch and breakfast for my husband who forgot it was my birthday.
I’m okay with that and it was the best birthday I have ever had. I’d say I spoiled my baby but I don’t think I can spoil her anymore than I already do.
Part of why I’m sharing this is that the The whole holiday season besides just my birthday has always been a particularly hard time of the year for me. I assume that there are several other sober recovery members that may feel the same way as well. This year I challenge you good folks to spread holiday cheer by being selfless. Donate your time to helping those less fortunate. Pay for someone’s coffee behind you in line or pay for someone’s breakfast at McDonalds. One year around Christmas time I saw an elderly person in line behind me at the grocery store with what looked like a holiday dinner for one. So, I bought a gift card that I figured would cover their meal and gave it to the cashier and explained I wanted it used for the customer behind me.
For me, helping others helps me get through these hard times during the holidays. Give it a shot, it can’t hurt right?
Happy holidays to my SR family! let’s make it great for everyone we come across in our path.
Instead, I decided to celebrate my birthday by making it a point to share as much kindness as possible to all living creatures. I was extra nice to my kitties giving them extra treats even my dads nasty cat. I smiled and complemented strangers as I went about my day. I gave the lady who cut my hair a generous tip. And went out of my way to make a really good lunch and breakfast for my husband who forgot it was my birthday.
I’m okay with that and it was the best birthday I have ever had. I’d say I spoiled my baby but I don’t think I can spoil her anymore than I already do.
Part of why I’m sharing this is that the The whole holiday season besides just my birthday has always been a particularly hard time of the year for me. I assume that there are several other sober recovery members that may feel the same way as well. This year I challenge you good folks to spread holiday cheer by being selfless. Donate your time to helping those less fortunate. Pay for someone’s coffee behind you in line or pay for someone’s breakfast at McDonalds. One year around Christmas time I saw an elderly person in line behind me at the grocery store with what looked like a holiday dinner for one. So, I bought a gift card that I figured would cover their meal and gave it to the cashier and explained I wanted it used for the customer behind me.
For me, helping others helps me get through these hard times during the holidays. Give it a shot, it can’t hurt right?
Happy holidays to my SR family! let’s make it great for everyone we come across in our path.
Thank you for your post. It feels so nice to read what you wrote.
I agree being kind is a great feeling. You sound to be a very caring and sensitive soul
I also got a chuckle about your Dad's nasty cat getting a treat too.
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Originally Posted by faith823
I also got a chuckle about your Dad's nasty cat getting a treat too.
and Thank you for the kind sentiments. I appreciate it. 😊
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Originally Posted by newhope01
Seriously, this cat reminds me of Lucifer from Cinderella.
and Thank you for the kind sentiments. I appreciate it. 😊
Give Lucifer a big snuggle and kiss from me!
He or she will love it! (chuckle)
I lost my cat in April and would give anything to chill with him one more time. I know he is with me and rooting me on. My baby Sherlocke...
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